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Good humor creates happy families and good parents.

One of the best qualities of a parent is the ability to humor their children and co-parent. To keep the mundane humorous. This doesn’t mean being a comedian or always acting like a birthday party clown with your kids, let alone insisting everyone keep smiling “or I spank you a lot,” but the ability to […]

the Old Souls*; how to make your the Young Soul* Thinking parents let go of you.

If you’re not too angry with your parents’ need to keep you contained yet, this post has reached you in time. You may feel your parent doesn’t trust you and is trying to control your choices and guide you even though you’re already an adult and (mostly) self-sustained. You might find this irritating. Fear not. […]

You’re not only responsible for your child now, but also the adult they’re growing up into.

If you have or plan to have a child, let me remind you that this kiddo will grow up one day (hopefully). On the day they turn 18, they’re supposed to be capable, both physically and mentally, to function WITHOUT YOU. Whether they will be able to function as an independent adult or not is […]

Should you allow your children to disagree with you?

Let me tell you this: as a parent, there is probably no better gift to give your child than the self-confidence to express a differing opinion. Whenever you CAN, look for opportunities to invite them to express disagreement, their view, their own perspective, and for them to learn how to express it so that you […]

A narcissist parent can see your wish to make money as an attempt to control them or their decisions.

Narcissists**’ children may find it very difficult to manifest success in their lives. As the Law Of Attraction (that serves The Law Of The Truest Wish) functions as a collaborative effort, and everyone in your life is a party to your LOA, a narcissistic parent can put a whole lot of blocks in the way […]

Honey, thinking about your child as your “forever baby” will not help him or her along.

Back in the day, people raised adults. Boys of 12 years of age were just about men. Girls were nearly women at 10. While that isn’t exactly where we should be returning, it’s time to recorrect our view somewhere where it’s sensible. I’m sure you’ve noticed something along these lines; kids seem to be unable […]

Raise your children to grow up – leave them a way out of the nest.

Take pride in your children growing up strong enough to leave you – not in raising your children dependent on your love and approval. Do not glorify this “my forever baby” idea; take pride only in children who stand proud on their own two feet as grown adults. Make sure your children know what’s expected […]

Someone I love lets their parent abuse them – even now that they’re an adult. What do I do?

People get judged for not getting on with their parents, don’t they? Your loved one may try too hard to not be an argumentative pissy little teenager, even though they’re an adult and deserve respect. Their relationship with their parents isn’t a great one, for one reason or another, and it should have been their […]

My partner/friend doesn’t want to take care of their parents – should I even love a person like that?!

Let me start this way: No child who has a good relationship with their parent will leave them for dead. The relationship doesn’t have to be GREAT for this, it doesn’t really even have to be GOOD, most people will stick around even if their relationship was merely tolerable. Therefore, if someone is ready and […]

Will your children be there when you grow old?

If you got this post at random and the image fits, consider this post a warning. There is a danger that you are pushing your kids toward a point where they no longer care about you. You maybe so busy insisting they take your every need into account in their lives that you leave no […]

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