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Messages from Sebastyne as chosen by the Universe.

Thrive for perfectionism and letting go of the outcome

Lover-thinking* and Cat Type Thinking* interaction is often a battle over what is a worthwhile level of effort, and whether, for instance, thriving for physical beauty is acceptable or simply vanity. The Young Soul* want to relax the Old Souls* by insisting they shouldn’t waste time and effort on “something so pointless” as well, physical […]

Is perfectionism bad for you, you ask?

No. Your perfectionism is bad for lazy people. They don’t want you to be impossible to compete with. Fuck ’em.   Never again lower your bar for someone who simply wants to crawl over it. (Your hiring decisions, your friendships, your colleagues; either they keep up, or they get out. Don’t let them hold you […]