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Messages from Sebastyne as chosen by the Universe.

Do not get into a relationship with a “I’ll change him/her to a better person” mindset (without a permission).

Some people want to be a project to their lover, yes. There are people who wish someone would see their potential to be a perfect person. Sometimes, they dress in a weird way to denote that they are in dire need of someone to help them figure things out, but other people may dress in […]

A narcissist may want to be given a permission to become something to make space for themselves to truly be it.

A narcissist tends to want to pretend to be something before they are; fake it ’till you make it, in other words. The problem with this is that they may not know when they’ve actually made it, and how much of their identity is still just “bought” by the audience. At first, you create a […]

Give yourself a permission to think.

You may not be a professional thinker, you know, have a University degree on a subject matter of interest, but that doesn’t mean you can’t think for yourself. You have the right to educate yourself informally, even if that education would go unrecognized by potential employers – paid work is not everything. There has never […]

Gender equality is not a mutual permission to abuse the opposite gender.

the Dog Type Thinker are hierarchical. This means, that they are always looking to dominate and to submit. Equality, in itself, is a profoundly the Cat Type Thinkers Thinking concept that we’re trying to teach the Dog Type Thinker, in vain. The the Dog Type Thinker thinkers are fixated on dominance. Therefore, the feminist movement, […]

A permission to fall in love with someone

Highly evolved spirits tend to wait for a permission to fall for someone who they quite genuinely already love. They know from personal experience, that having someone they don’t love pour their love on them is very uncomfortable, annoying, and destroys all respect and friendship between the two people. They wish to be given the […]

Give yourself the permission to think ill of others

Mercy, by definition, is not justice. One of the biggest life-changing decisions I’ve made was to give myself the permission to criticize others… To myself. Just have thoughts that are not deliberately kind and approving of others, no matter what they do. I had a bad habit of always stopping myself from thinking anything negative of other […]

Stop asking God to give you a permission to fall in love

The habit sits soooo tight. The habit of asking God for a permission to be reunited with your True Emotion Mirror. Instinctively we pray, we beg, we plead, even if we didn’t really believe in God. We blame him, we blame fate, we blame whatever, but there is one thing I know for sure God […]

Give yourself the permission to feel negative

You hate the way you look these days, but you are not allowed to feel that way. That is an example of the kind of self-manipulation we do, we feel that because someone who is  happy with the way they look is happier as a person, we should force ourselves into being happy with the […]