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What to do when someone (who isn’t qualified) tells your friends or lovers that you have a mental disorder (usually narcissistic PD)?

As I start writing this, I have very little idea what to say except that people may say this about you. Narcissistic Personality Disorder is something that a lot of people are worried about, and, Precious Soulmate and True Emotion Mirror relationships resemble it A LOT on the surface. A LOT. Why? Because NPD’s mimic […]

People’s first psychological motivation is to retain their idea of reality intact.

Imagine there are no mirrors. There has never been any mirrors. You cannot tell what you look like. The only way to know what you look like is by the reaction of other people; do they find you attractive, and how attractive are the people who find you attractive? Your only way to observe who […]

Narcissistic Personality Disorder or True Emotion Mirror?

Incredibly, this is something you might need to consider when you fall for someone so hard you seem to have lost your mind.

Narcissists** use psychology and religion to control healthy people

Beware, that a part of the narcissistic toolbox of control is psychology, spirituality, and religion, that can be used to manipulate others into believing they are either mentally ill or bad people. We all have some aspects of ourselves that are not necessarily 100% healthy; it is UNUSUAL that a person is completely clear of […]

How Narcissistic Personality Disorder is not really a thing

There are two types of people in the world; the Young Soul* and the Ravens*. It depends wholly on which type of a person is diagnosing (or casually judging) another person, as to who gets the diagnosis and who gets to be deemed “healthy”. In reality, neither has a personality disorder, but they are […]

Psychopathy – the Young Soul* and the Ravens* forms of it

Just like every other psychological condition, the Young Soul* thinker type and the Ravens* thinker type create different kinds of “psychopaths”. The diagnosis, treatment, and prevention of both require the exact opposite steps. The Ravens* thinker type is ALWAYS fighting for the personal freedom of their own or someone they feel is oppressed. […]

Helena’s Disease; A potentially new mental disorder affecting parent-child bonds

This is going to be a difficult read. This condition isn’t recognized in traditional psychology, nor am I in the position to make it so. I am not a psychologist nor a psychiatrist, I am simply observing as a layman. However, I think I stumbled on something that SHOULD have a classification of some description. […]

Narcissistic Personality Disorder, misdiagnosis and the real problems

Disobedience, being self-satisfied and knowing the level of one’s own, unusually high talent are not symptoms of any kind of a Narcissistic Personality Disorder. Liking the way oneself looks, taking tons of selfies, and maintaining a personal blog or a social media account are also not symptoms of NPD in itself. Not liking people, refusing […]

How to Stop Trying So Hard, and the related psychological trap

If you wound up on this page, you are already aware that you need to stop trying so hard to be something or to do something or to achieve something. However, what you might not have noticed, is that you maybe trying too hard to stop trying too hard – and that is a bit […]

How psychological disorders are used to control you

Traditional psychology begins with the assumption that everyone should feel the same way about everything because we are all humans, aka. members of the same species. If we do not feel the same way about stuff as “everyone else” there’s something wrong with you, right? the Swans* psychology has moved away from this view A […]

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