|
|
Posted on
Monday, April 7th, 2025 at
3:27 am in Australia - Last edit on
April 8, 2025 Tags: fears, reality check, Romantic Fantasy
Narcissism is the function of living a life of play pretend, living in one’s imagination and fantasies. They can’t tell a difference between reality and fantasy on a good day, and they cannot tell the difference on a bad day, either. Whatever they imagine is potentially their reality. Whether they imagine you love them more […]
|
Posted on
Wednesday, January 22nd, 2025 at
5:59 am in Australia - Last edit on
January 22, 2025 Tags: Internet, reality check
People who believe in their capacity to create a beautiful, happy reality, even a perfect life in the very real world, will prefer reality to telling lies to themselves. People who don’t see how they could possibly create the life they actually want in reality are very likely to prefer play-pretend to reality. Obviously. If […]
|
Posted on
Saturday, December 28th, 2024 at
4:57 am in Australia - Last edit on
December 28, 2024 Tags: coercion, reality check
Have you ever been in a situation where two children are playing, and suddenly one lashes out at the other, screaming, “STOP IT!” Now, you didn’t see anything, and the kid who got hit feigns innocence and starts crying. And, if you didn’t know CHILDREN do shit to irritate and poke the other one until they […]
|
Posted on
Saturday, July 20th, 2024 at
5:06 am in Australia - Last edit on
July 20, 2024 Tags: Attachment Styles, Emotional Boundaries, meaning and meaninglessness, reality check, relationships, Trust Issues
Some people enjoy the drama of emotional hurt. Some people hide behind the drama and enjoy the drama even when the relationship breakup and troubles are real. These people like to “feel big” by replacing real emotions with empty drama because drama is meaningless. Nobody really gets hurt during drama. However, if you see drama […]
|
Posted on
Tuesday, February 6th, 2024 at
9:54 am in Australia - Last edit on
April 5, 2025 Tags: Narcissism, Psychology, reality check
Imagine there are no mirrors. There has never been any mirrors. You cannot tell what you look like. The only way to know what you look like is by the reaction of other people; do they find you attractive, and how attractive are the people who find you attractive? Your only way to observe who […]
|
Posted on
Wednesday, December 20th, 2023 at
1:13 am in Australia - Last edit on
Tags: reality check
To have strong faith, you have to build it on what you can confirm to be a fact or observable to yourself. You shouldn’t feel compelled to decide to believe something that you have no proof of. Blind faith is for the foolish. An intellectual person builds faith on belief, belief in facts, evidence, personal […]
|
Posted on
Saturday, September 30th, 2023 at
11:02 am in Australia - Last edit on
Tags: reality check
This is the message: What you want is what you fear to believe is real. Others find it easy to convince you that what you wish it was like is a pipe dream you need to give up on. If you just make yourself believe what you can have is the only thing you can […]
|
Posted on
Monday, November 8th, 2021 at
11:36 pm in Australia - Last edit on
Tags: reality check
There are people who have a hard time facing reality for what it is. They kind of believe, that whatever they believe is so. In a sense, it is true; if you simply refuse to see the reality for what it is, then, your worldview remains untouched. You may be told that your husband or […]
|
Posted on
Thursday, October 14th, 2021 at
1:22 am in Australia - Last edit on
Tags: feelings, reality check, Self-Sabotage, The Inner Critic
We are often told “don’t worry” and “fear not”. I say allow yourself to worry, allow yourself to fear. We’re being told “don’t waste your time on anger”, I say be angry when you’re angry. Feel those feelings freely, allow yourself to feel what is true. Face reality as it is, and don’t forget that […]
|
Posted on
Saturday, January 6th, 2018 at
11:27 am in Australia - Last edit on
June 13, 2024 Tags: God, reality check
In a dream state, I do stuff I would never do in reality. I go along with some lesbian action. Girl-on-girl. I am given the template of what I’m supposed to feel, but I feel like taking a bath in a body temperature water. “Whatever”. In another dream, another girl, another situation, she wants to play […]
|
|
» |
