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True Emotion Mirrors and Rejection

First of all, let’s discuss why this issue must be discussed in massive detail. When a person meets their True Emotion Mirror, they may react in unexpected ways to this connection, because it is always a life-changing experience, particularly when meeting the first Mature State True Emotion Mirror. The TrEmor is such a person, that […]

True Emotion Mirror or a simple rejection junkie – here’s the key points

The first question that enters the mind of a True Emotion Mirror soon after they meet their other half is “Oh my god. I’m going crazy. I think they’re in love with me too? Are they in love with me? Am I imagining this?” They are always worried that they are projecting their own feelings, […]

Rejection and Playing Hard to Get

Here’s my dilemma: I look at myself in the mirror and I see the same face looking back at me every day. The same as all of us. I’m used to being who I am. When you see me for the first time, that’s the first time you’ve seen me. I’m used to me. When […]

How to learn to deal with rejection

Rejection is never pleasant, but there are ways to deal with it that makes it easier to take. This is not to ignore what happened, deny one’s own part of what happened, but to understand what rejection is and isn’t about. Rejection doesn’t mean you are a bad, unlovable, undesirable person. Rejection simply means you […]

How do you know if a rejection is real or a game?

There are people who toy with the people who they are interested in. They play games of all sorts, test their intended, challenge them, irritate them, try to push them away just to see if they’d call their bluff. It may be truly difficult to tell when a rejection is real and when it is […]

When Is a Rejection NOT a Rejection?

Rejection can be painful when it comes from someone who you thought would love you. While sometimes this is a real intent, too, there are plenty of situations where people simply misinterpret insecurity and fear for a rejection. This post is hopefully reassuring for those who are truly in love, and who are truly loved […]

How to get over a rejection?

If you are a monogamist, this should be easy for you. You know each one of us typically can only have ONE partner, ideally, for the rest of their lives. Think about that. The more wanted a person is, the more options they have to choose from to be that one single partner in this […]

The rejection and denial of casual sex between True Emotion Mirrors

I can say I am always GOBSMACKED to hear reactions such as that from men. Women, I understand… From my perspective, but they probably don’t mean what I suppose they mean, initially. Coming from a very sexually liberated country, all sexual oppression and judging people for the number of partners they’ve had or something similar […]

How does a rejection junkie think?

There are two different types of rejection junkies, and for a soulmate theorist like me, there is that annoying aspect of knowing that the behavior of a True Emotion Mirror* can make you think you are one, and knowing the way soulmates behave in reality may make a rejection junkie think that what they are […]

The Warnings About Rejection and Running Behaviors

I write this blog painfully aware of two different thinker types prying on every word. One finds justification to keep harassing people who do not love them, the other nervously seeks for warning signs that they are doing just that – and stop when they haven’t even made it clear they’re interested. I am balancing between two extremes, so please keep this in mind as you go.

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