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Sunday, December 22nd, 2024 at
10:41 am in Australia - Last edit on
April 5, 2025 Tags: Abuse, Attachment Styles, Emotional Boundaries, Narcissism, relationships, Trust Issues
Narcissists** will always attempt to safe face by blaming all relationship issues on someone else. They fear relationships, and they fear being alone, but when they are once again at the brink of a breakup, they need YOU TO KNOW that IT WAS YOUR FAULT, your ex’s fault, your mother’s fault, maybe your dog’s fault, […]
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Saturday, October 26th, 2024 at
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December 30, 2024 Tags: Attachment Styles, Emotional Boundaries, relationships, Trust Issues, warnings
While in the 1950’s, celebrity divorces may have made people gasp in horror, Gen X or anyone younger won’t give a f*** anymore. We get it. Most of our relationships are just as messy these days, just not front-page news. XD
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Sunday, October 13th, 2024 at
2:30 pm in Australia - Last edit on
October 13, 2024 Tags: Attachment Styles, Emotional Boundaries, relationships, Trust Issues
Even parenting should be a privilege and a joy, or you’re doing it wrong. NO RELATIONSHIP that you have an option to not have is not a job. This leaves work relationships that are literally a job as jobs, but your personal relationships are all NOT A JOB. They exist to make your life better, […]
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Sunday, October 13th, 2024 at
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October 13, 2024 Tags: Attachment Styles, Emotional Boundaries, God, Parenting, relationships, Trust Issues
And for the love of God don’t have kids to please someone else. The last thing we need in this world is a bunch of unwanted children for an unwilling parent, if we need more people at all. We’ve got enough people, thanks. Have children if it pleases you. Have relationships if it pleases you. […]
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Saturday, July 20th, 2024 at
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July 20, 2024 Tags: Attachment Styles, Emotional Boundaries, meaning and meaninglessness, reality check, relationships, Trust Issues
Some people enjoy the drama of emotional hurt. Some people hide behind the drama and enjoy the drama even when the relationship breakup and troubles are real. These people like to “feel big” by replacing real emotions with empty drama because drama is meaningless. Nobody really gets hurt during drama. However, if you see drama […]
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Saturday, May 18th, 2024 at
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May 18, 2024 Tags: Attachment Styles, Emotional Boundaries, Emotional Intelligence, Friendship, relationships, Trust Issues
Sympathy is something people connect through when they are with people kin to themselves. They feel the same. They understand each other effortlessly. Friendship between different kinds of people requires empathy both ways. You must acknowledge your differences and still understand each other, your perspectives, situations, and life goals. “Do unto others as you’d do […]
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Monday, April 15th, 2024 at
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April 15, 2024 Tags: Attachment Styles, Emotional Boundaries, relationships, romantic relationships, Trust Issues
Men with wants are sexy. Fulfilling a man’s desires is titillating to a straight woman. If a woman feels otherwise, maybe she’s not in the right relationship or even with the right gender, or she has some other issues to work through. I don’t know. For the purpose of this post, that is not our […]
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Tuesday, April 9th, 2024 at
1:50 am in Australia - Last edit on
April 5, 2025 Tags: Attachment Styles, Embracing Vulnerability, Emotional Boundaries, intimacy, Narcissism, relationships, Sexual Energy, Trust Issues, Vulnerability
When you have a fear of intimacy, you run from relationships that are actually available to you and cling to those that are not. That makes the relationship very superficial and thus manageable for someone who has a fear of intimacy. They will never have to measure up to the expectations of a spouse or […]
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Tuesday, February 6th, 2024 at
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August 26, 2024 Tags: Attachment Styles, Emotional Boundaries, relationships, Trust Issues
Many of us believe that it would be the best way to solve any relationship problems to lock the feeding parties into a room until they sort out their differences. I have now been in a simulated situation such as that for over ten years, and yes, some relationships solved within hours, and some have […]
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Tuesday, February 6th, 2024 at
9:54 am in Australia - Last edit on
Tags: Attachment Styles, Emotional Boundaries, relationships, romantic relationships, Trust Issues
For as long as you think that love is something you win or lose, you’ll be guaranteed to hurt in relationships. GUARANTEED. You’ll ALWAYS either lose or fear losing. You’ll watch over your shoulder for fitter, more committed competitors, people who are just dying to steal your partner from you. You’ll always be on the […]
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