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Can sex be your primary connection and it still be a True Emotion Mirror connection?

Yes, it can, and it kinda has to be. It, too, must be mutual, however, even if you have a mutual fetish for “forced” scenarios. But it cannot be your ONLY connection. Our sexuality is the thing that brings people together into a sexual relationship. A romantic/sexual relationship without sex is called a friendship, not […]

Love tourism – the third of a couple – sexual attraction to momentary love.

Today, I discovered there’s another type of sexuality that I’ve been only semi-aware of. It’s called symbiosexuality. It means that you’re sexually attracted to a pre-existing couple and their ‘synergy.’ Me as a cynic, I sometimes find a little ‘mocky’ explanations to be quite effective; it seems like a type of love tourism; you are […]

To make or break a persistent (unwanted) connection to someone who insists they love you…

If you are in a situation where someone is persistently in love with you and demanding a chance, give them permission to love you as much as they do, and give them a chance to prove to you that they do, indeed, love you. Do not promise to love them back, however, or to have […]

Why can’t we “just trust” the True Emotion Mirror connection?

A True Emotion Mirror connection benefits from certain innocent faith in love. Realism is a little toxic to it, but being a realist myself, I cannot help but analyze. “Why can’t you just trust it?” is like asking a cow to “just fly.” Maybe a better analogy would be an injured bird. You can’t “just […]

Polyandrous men can feel a type of… Fear of hidden female-to-female-attraction.

Naturally polyandrous (MFM) men are not particularly turned on or excited about the lesbian fantasy that both polygynandrous (MFMF) and polygynous (FMF) men can harbor. These two latter types connect to the poly fantasy that involves several women. Still, a polyandrous man doesn’t really enjoy that female bonding or female attraction any more than polygynous […]

A True Emotion Mirror bond never feels bad. If your connection feels bad, it’s something else.

Intense soulmate connections happen. Some of them feel good, some of them feel bad. The ones that feel bad are about something other than a True Emotion Mirror connection. A True Emotion Mirror always feels good to you, even if it goes dreadfully wrong. Even when you’re not talking, you feel better just knowing they’re […]

Looking for a connection in the confrontation.

The real reason for people picking a fight and seeking confrontation is probably that they’re looking for a connection with another person. However, when one such person is arguing with a connected person, their goal in that argument is different. One wants to solve their own lack of connection and make a friend by mutually […]

How to break an unwanted bond with a person you have a spirit connection to?

It is possible that an unwanted suitor, or a friend that should have never been a friend, a karmic soulmate, gains access to you in spirit. I have been in this situation for 13 years, and nothing I do or say will make them disappear. However, I just realized something. I don’t suffer from it […]

Be careful what you wish for – the traps of the Law of Attraction.

“Life will always pay you the whatever price you ask of it,” said Tony Robbins. “Ask, and you shall receive,” said Jesus. What I tell you is that the Universe will pay you the highest price you dare to ask for or the lowest price you think you deserve. It will ATTEMPT to give you […]

How to break the telepathic connection to unwanted people?

Please trust me that they are with you for a reason, but that reason isn’t necessarily to make up with them and reestablish a relationship with them. They may be there to teach you how they think so you can avoid karmic binding like this in the future. They may not be teaching this to […]

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