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Getting on the same page with the Young Soul* runner or chaser

This is the one thing that I WISH someone had been able to tell me when I was 20. My life would have been so different had I known this. When the Young Soul* is convinced that they are “one” with you, it can be near impossible to make them see the world from your […]

Confusing Individuals: A Enigma Spirit (Object and the Chaser)

This is a pairing of a Enigma Spirit (the object/runner) and a Enigma Chaser. A Enigma Spirit is someone who gathers a lot of attention from other people for a reason or another. They display a lot of desirable traits ranging from beauty to heroism and talent, but they are often pitied by the Young […]

Libertine* Spirit Mirror AND the Enigma (and their Chaser)

This maybe a little bit confusing, but let me try and make this clearer: Libertine* Spirit Mirror is a very sexually attractive person with no sexual hang-ups whatsoever. Enjoys sexual relationships and love, a natural polyamorist, doesn’t hold barriers from others sexually speaking, and allows others really close really fast, making it easy for others […]

An obvious post: Not everyone who rejects you is a True Emotion Mirror runner!!!

OK. If you are using the True Emotion Mirror theory as a proof that the person who you want back in your life is your True Emotion Mirror runner because they rejected you, you have got it so very wrong. If a simple rejection gives you that kind of an idea, it only makes you […]

How does the True Emotion Mirror Runner think?

I approach the topic of True Emotion Mirrors and the motivations of the True Emotion Mirror runner from the perspective that we are human, and psychology has a lot more to do with our running and chasing behavior than any spiritual theory explains. This is good, because understanding your part of the reasons why your […]

In the mind of a True Emotion Mirror chaser

I’ve been talking to a lot of True Emotion Mirror chasers, usually women who follow the commonly known True Emotion Mirror advice written by women just like them. This is how the average conversation goes: TWC: I met my True Emotion Mirror 3 years ago and since then they have started a relationship with this […]

Is there any certainty that the Runner will stop when the Chaser stops?

There is a good chance of True Mirrors (True Emotion Mirrors) getting together in time when you follow your instinct in every way you can. However, a person who thinks themselves as a Chaser may well be the (second) Runner; You have to speak up and show them how you feel to be considered the Chaser.

What is my True Emotion Mirror Runner feeling and thinking?

The motivation behind True Mirror running is often guilt, shame over their intense, often inappropriate strong sexual desire along with hurt feelings that haven’t always been caused by the object of their desires, either. Well-meaning friends might have taken the hope from their heart and put shame in its place, making them deny their feelings entirely.

Should I give my True Emotion Mirror runner an ultimatum?

Besides, what if they decide to not take you up on your offer? Then what? Are you just going to happily walk away and fall in love with someone else or what? No, I didn’t think so, so what’s the point of the ultimatum? It’s all a bluff and puts you in a very bad light to boot.

How far should the chaser True Emotion Mirror chase the runner?

In my numerous posts about runner/chaser dynamics I have given a few different scenarios in attempt to give clarity towards what to do to end the separation phase with a soul bond lover. The situations are different, and therefore the code of conduct should be different, but there is one advice that I can give […]

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