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Messages from Sebastyne as chosen by the Universe.

How much awareness of your sexuality is fun, and how much of it just spoils the surprise?

There is the problem of consent. It’s all playing it quite safe, even too safe. We should aim for a society that accepts a wound or two in grown-up people rather than trying to molly-coddle everyone into a ball of cotton wool for safe protection at all times. We kinda like things rough at times, […]

Are they brave or in denial and too afraid to see the ugly truth?

Sometimes people seem brave… but is that person a fool or a hero? Are they fearless or naive and stupid? Are they speeding down a windy road with their eyes closed because they’re brave and psychic or just a simpleĀ  idiot? You know where my money is bet.  

Why do people rely on smart people when they don’t want to hear the truth?

It is an interesting skill to fool oneself into believing everything is fine and one’s doing great. One method of self-delusion is to go to a person who is known to be smart with pre-held instructions on what to tell you. When the smart, trusted person picks up on your intent and tells you what […]

It doesn’t really matter if you tell the truth or not – people are going to interpret you whichever way they like.

I’ve been a chronic truth-teller my whole life… But I also have to find a nice way to tell the truth. The problem with telling the truth is that you always weigh two options: “Is this true or not?” and that signals that you ARE considering your words. You give an air of trying to […]

The truth is what makes it or breaks it.

Look at your relationships, your life, your business adventure, your talent and skills, whatever you’re struggling with. Now, here’s the thing: If it isn’t TRUE what you say to yourself, it doesn’t EXIST. You cannot lose what doesn’t exist. Is God real? What is God? Does your XYZ really love you, or does believing they […]

You have to tell yourself the truth – you’re the only one you can fully trust to do so.

There are people who lie to themselves. A lot of them. There are also people who lie to others about how they feel about that other… Most people do unless they’re willing to LIVE with their words. People can tell you they love you or care about you, “of course,” but you cannot trust words […]

Why are they not telling me the truth?

Here’s a wild guess: You’ve decided what the truth is before you even asked them and will accept only that answer as the truth, even though they’ve been telling you the truth all this time, but you refuse to accept it. ALWAYS check with yourself when you think someone is lying to you and why […]

The Ugly Truth.

This is going to be an unusual post among my posts here, because this is very raw and unusual feeling I’m having, but if you pulled this post up at random, it should explain something to you. So I’ve been talking with this guy online for a while now. I was pretty convinced he’s a […]

Keep your eyes peeled – how to learn to look truth in the eye?

Sometimes reality is not pleasant to see. We see signs of something being not the way we want it, and feel tempted to ignore those signs. Some of us have learned to pay so much attention on bad signs that we see nothing but. It is a trick to be learned to be objective about […]

Confused about gender/sexual identity? (Keeping it simple.)

If you are growing up or grew up at this time in 2020’s it is no wonder if you are a bit confused. I would be, too. The reason for all the confusion is that it’s not permissible for a teacher to use certain materials that would actually add clarity rather than confusion to that […]

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