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Look directly at the truth you are afraid of.

We tend to avoid certain truths. We fear what we might find if we looked at it with open eyes. Still, it is very smart to do just that. Often, what you find is actually not as scary or bad as you think. Sometimes, it’s worse. Either way, the truth is best known.

“Telling the truth” by the Dog Type Thinker Thinking definition

A the Dog Type Thinker doesn’t necessarily understand why any outsider has the right to ask for them to tell the truth. They also don’t think anyone would volunteer the truth in public, they believe the truth is reserved for very close friends, no matter what it is. A the Dog Type Thinker treats the […]

People talk shit about your True Emotion Mirror. You have to know the truth.

Helpful people can be very freaking disruptive to True Emotion Mirror relationships. They mean well; they want to play cupid with the obvious couples, and what they do, mostly, is fuck it up for them. They have their own idea how true romance goes, and it may have absolutely NOTHING to do with the dynamic […]

Telling the truth is difficult because of people’s different assumptions.

We all project our feelings and worldview on others; we assume people are more similar to us than what they actually are. If you want to work, you assume everyone does. If, to you, figuring out you’re bisexual was a liberation, you assume everyone is bisexual. If you would never lie about something like that, […]

Create a fake image of who you are in truth.

If you feel embarrassed about “coming out” as your authentic self because you’re not sure it’s received correctly, how about you think of it as a con? You “Fake it ’till you make it” as they say: you “lie” until it becomes true. This is often the way people go from their teen years to […]

When you’re picking your sexual identity, imagine you’re reading a menu.

Sometimes, there’s a pressure to “choose the right way of being” as per what is in and what is out, what gives you acceptance and approval, a sense of belonging rather than what actually is authentic for you. For the purpose of Free Spirit Theory, what is important is the authentic way of being, not […]

How to take sexual identity labels?

There are two types of people: those who view these identity labels as descriptive words, that help us communicate what we are and what makes us happy, and those, who take them as limiting and separating labels that create unnecessary complications in their lives. I am, again, talking about the Cat Type Thinkers and the […]

A bad intuitive takes a person’s fears and insecurities for the truth.

There are psychics and intuitives who are quite innocently tuned in with another person’s fears and insecurities that they believe to be the truth of the matter. (An intuitive is a person who doesn’t act as a psychic but is well attuned to other people’s feelings and emotional states. Most of us have some ability […]

When you want to know what men find attractive, don’t rely on women to tell you the truth.

Well… With exceptions. 😉 Women, as a gender, have always dictated what men HAVE TO find attractive about women, what they are ALLOWED TO feel attracted to. They sort of behave accordingly, but that doesn’t mean their NATURAL INSTINCT follows what they’re actually told to feel attracted to. If you want to know what men […]

When your identity was based on being the lover of a Reverse Mirror.

It can feel like the world as you knew it sifts underneath your feet when you discover the person you thought you were born to love is actually everything except what you thought they were. The Angel turned out to be an evil witch… The “bad boy” turned out to be a boring truth-teller and […]

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