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It is not beneficial for your future happiness to try and destroy your intended partner’s self-confidence.

This should go without saying. Still, there are people who attack people they’re interested in to bring them down to their own level. Ironically, these same people can get attacked in the attempt to reject them, which they can interpret as a type of come-on or at least as a sign of interest. It can […]

Spirit(s) can heal medical problems, but you should NEVER bargain for a healing.

Let’s say it this way: do not make a deal with the devil, no matter what your ailment. You can find another spirit to do it for free. A spiritual healer in the physical realm may ask for compensation, which is fair considering paying people to do what they are good at enables them to […]

Please work toward getting the self-confidence you need to do your thing without dragging others into it.

You are perfectly permitted to do whatever you need to do to make yourself happy, but your rights end where you need to start modifying others to fit your needs. You can DENY yourself from others, and they can feel that’s disappointing, but you don’t get to force yourself on other people and their lives, […]

If you want a community, don’t make it to be about True Emotion Mirrors (or Twin Flames or soulmate healing.)

Spirituality is a highly personal thing. There is a reason why Buddhist monks are not allowed to talk to each other, and why a lot of spiritual communities rely on the wow of silence. You’re supposed to do your own thinking. You are supposed to connect to God, the Universe, and your True Emotion Mirrors […]

Never underestimate the self-confidence issues of a vain realist.

Vanity is one of the most precious character traits in a person one can find. Often given a bad reputation, vanity drives a person to great heights and to be a perfect person. Perfectionism cannot allow character flaws any more than it allows physical flaws. That, dear reader, is a winner attitude. However, when coupled […]

Where does self-confidence come from?

Self-confidence comes from feeling that you know and like who you are. You like who you are, and you know nobody in this world has the power to change who you are against your will. You like being you and know you are secure in your right to be who you are. Self-confidence does not […]

What is the line between narcissism and high self-esteem?

People often confuse being self-satisfied with being narcissistic. This is not truly a good measure to say whether someone is narcissistic or not. However, there is a link between the two: a narcissistic person has an unrealistically positive self-image, and they believe, unrealistically, that others admire them over something that the others might never feel […]

Abuser logic: “I need you not to have the self-confidence to leave me.”

The reason why abusers try to tear down your self-confidence from up close is so they’ll make it so you won’t have the self-confidence to leave them. They justify this by telling themselves that “deep down they love you” and that “they’ll have you back in a pinch.” But what “the pinch” is or might […]

Definitions of self-respect.

Tick the right answers. (Some are wrong.) I hold myself to a standard that I am proud of and won’t allow anyone to drag me down from without a very good reason. I will not allow others to violate myself, my rights, or my values within reason. I will make sure others kneel before me. […]

Maybe an 8 self-confidence issues

One would think that being beautiful or handsome, intelligent, popular, well-loved by both genders, successful and all that jazz would make you immune to self-confidence issues. The truth, however, is often not quite as simple as that. The reason for this is that people rarely feel the need to build the positive ego (idea of […]

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