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How do you overcome the fear of confessing your love to someone?

First of all, never underestimate the right timing. Sometimes, when we are with our True Emotion Mirror especially, we feel the need to rush things like mad. It is natural to feel like this may not be the right time to say things – let it be until the right time comes; it is not […]

How much crap do you put up with in your fear of embarrasment?

Don’t assume I am above the fear of embarrassment. Far from it. I have my issues. But it is healthy to notice how everything we are afraid of is about the fear of embarrassment. It is not the fear of failure that stops us, it’s the embarrassment of the failure and you getting caught of […]

What is procrastination and laziness for, when you should be building a business?

It is not so much about timing or your habit of procrastination; it is there so you don’t over-commit yourself when you don’t have a relationship, as in more important things to do with your time than chasing money. Therefore, your business is automatically scaled to what you can achieve when you’re NOT constantly working. […]

Spiritual self-sabotage until you learn to avoid past life’s mistakes

This post was published from a draft mode, FYI   If you feel stuck in your life, somehow, examine your goals. What if you get what you want? What will be your problem? Imagine your past self holding onto you to dear life: “You ain’t going there until you figure this out. Until you’re PREPARED […]

You create what you fear: “Nobody will take care of me. Everybody will leave me.” -edition

Let me tell you a story. A mother fears that her daughter will not be there for her when she grows old. She feels embarrassed to ask about it, and embarrassed about the fear and the very need for a daughter’s presence. She knows their relationship isn’t great, and that they are not truly bonding. […]

Fear responses; flight, fight, or cry?

Usually, psychology calls it the flight or fight response, when, it truly should have a third option in there; cry. Granted, the cry-response is effectively a child’s response, but many adults, particularly women, still react to fear with tears rather than fight or flight. It comes from the feeling that they cannot cope with the […]

Allow yourself to face reality and your true feelings; reduce fear and worry by feeling it

We are often told “don’t worry” and “fear not”. I say allow yourself to worry, allow yourself to fear. We’re being told “don’t waste your time on anger”, I say be angry when you’re angry. Feel those feelings freely, allow yourself to feel what is true. Face reality as it is, and don’t forget that […]

What you fear is what you get and “Good things can happen TODAY” affirmation

People program other people subconsciously by their own beliefs. Matthew McConaughey has such self-esteem, that he can walk into a meeting for a side role, and walk out with the leading role. He probably believes himself to be a hero to strangers, but he MIGHT believe men who know him hate him for the ease […]

Fear makes people do the worst things in this world

When I was a kid, I was an avid reader of Donald Duck -comics. In one of them, and I couldn’t say what strip it was, Uncle Scrootch says to Donald’s nephews, that there is nothing to fear in this world but fear itself. It stuck with me, and I’m pretty convinced he was right. […]

Fame and fortune and the fear of losing it all

Fame is the single easiest asset to convert to dollars. You cannot make much money without a level of fame, you NEED people to know you exist before they can buy anything off you, your services, appearances, your product, whatever that may be. Your reputation, however, should be somewhat likable before you stand to lose […]

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