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Messages from Sebastyne as chosen by the Universe.

If you think she/he might be too good for you, it’s because you actually value who they are.

… And that’s a great start. I always shudder when people talk about their intended romantic partner with the attitude of “Well they SHOULD feel happy to have me. I mean, it’s not like they’re special in any way.” No. Your partners and friends SHOULD feel special to you. They SHOULD feel like you’d be […]

Don’t regulate your emotions or feelings, rather, control your understanding of the situation and enhance self-confidence and self-esteem.

Your feelings and emotions are always right, but you don’t always know what they’re reporting. What is upsetting you is your current understanding of the situation rather than the situation itself. For instance, you’ve decided that any remark about your appearance is an insult to you as a woman. You get an automatic alert when […]

Their Healing Precious Soulmate loves your True Emotion Mirror out of love and respect for you, too.

The Healing Precious Soulmate is a transitionary permanent bond between people. It is somewhat of a “false TrEmoR” but is an authentic, beautiful connection. The purpose of this connection is that of healing and revitalizing, as the name suggests. It is more selfless than the connection between True Emotion Mirrors, which has this deeply selfish […]

A True Emotion Mirror will boost your self-confidence and make you love life.

“I want to take this over,” says my True Emotion Mirror in spirit. “I am famous. CRAZY famous. I love my life – at times – but at times, I hate it. I love the fact my TrEmoR Seb points out that I wouldn’t ever emphasis how famous I am, or act in a pompous […]

Some secrets are kept from you out of respect for you.

There are times when people keep you at an arm’s lenght to protect you and to respect you. They may not be the kind of a person you think they are and they are acutely aware of that. Therefore, they keep you out of their lives. They may think you are naive, but they still […]

Self-confidence and intelligence have no direct correlation.

How do you know you’re… Stupid was the question of the day, rather than how do you know you’re smart. Here are some pointers: Society at large is created for the average person to navigate with relative ease, and regular schools are designed for the average person. Everyday jobs are for the regular person. If […]

Your looks should reflect self-respect, respect for other people, and your romantic and sexual partner.

Your looks should be reflect respect. Respect for yourself, other people in general, and your romantic and sexual partner(s). It shouldn’t be about trying to fit a mold, trying to be perfect, gaining acceptance or approval for being prettier than others. You don’t need to be the prettiest thing alive, or the most handsome man […]

What flattering an inferior does to their self-esteem; their ego and their vos

We are all, every person everywhere, our own display of perfection. No matter how weird it may look to you, we’re all our own idea of the best of humanity. Don’t blame them – you’re the same. We change when our own idea of the ideal person changes, not a moment before. Therefore, technically, everybody […]

You have to respect people’s masculinity, too.

Femininity is always respected, right? A lot of talk goes into respecting women and feminine women and feminine needs and whatnot. Well, masculinity also deserves respect. One of the things that masculine people, masculine women included, don’t really like is maternal love energy in a hug from someone OTHER than their closely bonded mother, particularly […]

Fake competence and self-confidence with the Dog Type Thinker Thinking parent.

the Dog Type Thinker are tricky for a Cat Type Thinkers Thinking child to understand. A the Cat Type Thinkers Thinking child or adult will expect their parent to accept that “OK, the Offspring looks like they know what they’re doing. They’re not going to kill themselves by simply being an idiot. They know how […]

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