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Demanding respect only to feel disrespected (female quirks)

This DOES NOT apply to all women but explains some of the current day BS with #MeToo and other similar campaigns. I believe that there are women who demand insane levels of respect only to feel disrespected – to find the guy with the balls to call them on their BS… Or just take what […]

How the Normal Person* and the Savants* shame each other (while trying to show love or respect)

the Normal Person* function largely on the feeling of love. The Savants* are far more interested in earning people’s respect. The Normal Person* are very much like small children after attention, where as the Savants* act like young adults trying to prove their capability in this world. The Savants* have the capacity […]

Physical beauty is a mental value: You cannot truly fall for a person who feels differently about beauty

It is a myth that true love doesn’t have anything to do with good looks. It does, and a lot. However, it is more a mental thing than a physical thing. A person who values beauty, but who has lost their beauty… let’s say, in a fire, is still mentally aligned with a person who […]

Maybe an 8 self-confidence issues

One would think that being beautiful or handsome, intelligent, popular, well-loved by both genders, successful and all that jazz would make you immune to self-confidence issues. The truth, however, is often not quite as simple as that. The reason for this is that people rarely feel the need to build the positive ego (idea of […]

Romantic self-confidence; when is it too much, and when isn’t it enough?

Absolute self-confidence is nothing but a sign of stupidity, I said some time ago. I also said, that a person MUST BE ABLE to accept the THEORETICAL possibility that they might not be wanted by someone. That their company simply MIGHT NOT BE welcomed by all people, no matter how much they, themselves love that […]

Why “unbreakability” cannot be a value you measure the relationship by

Some people value one thing over all others when they consider how “high” or “valuable” a relationship is; the durability of it. This means, that they value people staying together “no matter what”, “against all odds” including and not limited to the situation when each and every one of them are hurting each other terribly, […]

Why the Savants* don’t value education as much as the Normal Person*

The Normal Person* value clear “boxes”. They appreciate a clear set of instructions that take them from point A to point B… Or Z, depending on their ambition. However, the Savants* don’t find this challenging, at the same time as they find it impossible to do. Intellectually, they would be more than capable of […]

Definition of respect

Tick the correct definition of respect. (Some of these are wrong, but how some people understand the word.) Do not say mean things about me even when they are true. (As in: Do not put me face-to-face with the white lies I’ve told myself about myself and what is told about me. Do not threaten […]

Showing off, self-confidence, and where’s the limit?

People always say the sexiest thing in this world is self-confidence, and I agree. That is unless you’re into downright flashy people like some of us, most of us even, are, whether we like to admit to it or not. We love people who are bravely themselves, proud of who they are, flashy and sparkly […]

The meaning of self-confidence in a True Emotion Mirror relationship

Self-confidence is the key to ALL of our relationships, each and every one of them. The reason is somewhat simpler than what it sounds… When we are insecure about ourselves and how we’ll be received, or even whether people would love us TOO MUCH if they knew what we are like, we don’t let our […]

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