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As a strategy, refusing sex from a guy is a terrible one.

Mind you, I’m saying STRATEGY. This is the keyword here: strategy to bag the bloke. I don’t mean you should sleep with every guy who wants to sleep with you at once; I’m saying being calculative about who you sleep with is a terrible strategy. Sex should happen when you both want it. Sex should […]

Bad sex is had to impress/please a third party

People have bad sex all the time. The purpose of it is to “be right” by someone else’s standards. To impress somebody, like the genuine target of their sexual attraction, that may not be gender compatible. For example, a closet lesbian woman may try to impress a straight woman she has a crush on by […]

Yes. Some of us really like sex.

It may come as a shock to you that the love of sex isn’t a gender thing. Some of us women do love sex, and we want a sexual relationship that lasts a lifetime. The ultimate dream may be to find someone you feel sexually attracted to from the start and to whom that attraction […]

Why high IQ and high sex drive might be linked.

If you see this post, it is shown to you to offer you something to study. I am not an expert, this is a suggestion to you: It seems to me that the higher a person’s IQ, the “kinkier” and the more sexually driven they are. I personally do not know a genius, male or […]

Love and Tragedy, Sex and Murder – why you need to watch who you’re friends with.

This is going to be profoundly disturbing for True Emotion Mirrors. There are people who automatically link sex to murder and love to a tragic death in their minds like there is no other alternative. Without the tragic death of one or the other lover, these people believe the love will eventually turn stale. They […]

Men want relationships, too… And women want sex.

Here’s a kicker for a lot of you… Men want relationships and women want sex. The question is, do they want it with you? Everybody wants a relationship with someone who they find romantically and sexually attractive. Otherwise, it makes no sense to be in a relationship. The trouble here is that people who are […]

No label – no sex!

Here’s an idea: if a grown person cannot put a sexual preference label on themselves, assume, rather that they don’t have preferences, that they don’t have desires AT ALL. If they don’t know what they want, they don’t know what they don’t want, either, and that makes them TOO IMMATURE for sex. Simple as that. […]

Do you feel ridiculous because you want love or sex so much?

It is ridiculous, you know that, to feel ridiculous for wanting love or thinking you’d be hot enough for someone to want to have sex with you? You know it, logically, that you’re quite good enough, but yet, you can’t quite convince your mind it is ridiculous to feel ridiculous, and then you feel a […]

People want fast and easy company as much as they accept easy sex.

People are social beings. We rarely prefer our own company to ANY company at all. It is also true that if someone is a social person, they’ll rather feel that telling someone they don’t even want to hang out with you is such a seriously offensive thing to say that they really find it difficult […]

Is non-committal sex harmful to your psyche?

When I was younger, I was warned a lot about the dangers of non-committal sex. I assume the same warning still goes around. Particularly with women, the assumption is that commitment and permanence is the key to happy sex life, but I do have to, again, point out that what breaks one person makes another. […]

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