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Good sex is rather simple, really.

It is ironic, I must say. The insanely famous men who accompany me in spirit told me this thing, how they struggle to get good sex out of their relationships. You might find that surprising, right? However, when you think of it, it makes perfect sense. Every woman they’re with is putting in their best […]

“I already have a boy/girlfriend” – sex at work place.

The Young Soul* and the Ravens* also vary dramatically in how they value their romantic relationships. This becomes very difficult when you have to share a work place with both the Ravens* and the Young Soul*. You will never hear a Ravens* say “I already have a significant other” to mean “I […]

Romantic relationships with no sex involved – is that supposed to be enough?

In the following, I am in no way suggesting that people should always do relationships the same way. Not at all. Everyone who has listened to me for five seconds should know this. However, what people seem to insist on having the right to do is to dictate the rules of the relationship THEY WANT […]

Why am I so sex-obsessed as a “spiritual” teacher?

I understand that what I write can be seen as being sex-obsessed and sex-focussed. The original reason for putting that focus in was that when it came to spiritual love, a lot of people assumed sex would not be a part of a spiritual love relationship. The reason why so many women, especially, thinks that’s […]

Dom Pro-tips: How to force sex without forcing anyone.

There’s the matter of consent, first of all. You need consent, right, but asking for it can be such a massive turn off for both of you. It’s like starting a first date romantic dinner by signing a prenuptial agreement. Not hot. Still, you need consent. Pro-tip #1 Phrase your question: “If you don’t want […]

The Real Life True Emotion Mirror sex, as in TrEmoR Sex

I will jump right onto a topic request from Anna, because this is one of those posts that I would love to talk about, and still hate the thought of. 😀 The reason being, that I have very limited physical experience of this myself, and my knowledge is based on spirit contacts and a few […]

Adults who feel pressured to have sex by cultural expectations

You may have heard of adult babies and asexuals, but you might have missed the group of people who are really neither, whose interest in sex is so low that they do not even wish to give themselves a label to explain their disinterest, but who feel like it is abnormal to want sex so much and feel pressured into a sexual template when they form relationships…

The Power of Pestering People for Sex, Love, or Friendship Until They Give In

Ever met someone who pesters people for love and sex or friendship? The kind of people who will say anything it takes to land a good deal on any of those fronts? And again, don’t get alarmed. I, too, love the kind of humorous begging, the kind that accepts no for an answer, if not […]

Online dating will involve a healthy amount of talk about sex. It should.

I love online dating. I love it mainly because of the incredible amount of good stuff that comes into your inbox. I love the conversations about relationships, sex, and sexuality, all those topics that normally wouldn’t happen, but on a dating site is a natural thing to discuss, even if only on a theoretical level. […]

Why do some people (the Young Soul*) fear sex?

Remember that for the Young Soul*, everything is a social or a communal thing. Sex is no different. The Young Soul* have an interesting fear of intimacy. They fear everything one-on-one, because that, to them, feels like they have been ousted from the security of the group. When separated from the group, they feel they […]

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