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Relationship guide for those who are not really interested in sex

I have noticed that two groups are constantly at odds with each other when it comes to relationships. The sexual and the asexual. (Asexual meaning a person with little or no sexual interest towards other people.) Relationships, to an asexual, can be annoying, as people associate all romantic relationship types (mono or poly) with sex. […]

Why I, a sex-obsessed female, want a dress code

A dress code should not be needed. It SHOULD NOT, but it is. People dress up in certain ways to convey a message, and the less we have codes, the harder it is to express oneself through a coded message in a dress. Back in the victorian times, a naughty girl could get a man aroused by showing him her angle. Now, a girl with no intent of having sexual relations with anyone can walk around half naked with no fear of sexual attention. That’s simply BORING.

Women blog about sex all the time, but what about sex blogs by men?

You won’t find it difficult to find sex blogs written by women with one simple Google search, but to find a personal sex blog by a man… That is a trick and a half. Men cannot say certain things out loud, and I really wish someone did. I am personally gagging for them, so if you could help me out and send me links, please.

Sex and Business

If you are currently trying to make a good living for yourself, and you think of yourself as someone to whom great sex life matters a lot… If you do not feel sexy working, you won’t be succeeding. If there is ANYTHING ELSE amiss in your life, it will also hinder your career and your […]

The non-sexual or low-sex drive True Emotion Mirrors

With all the focus on the sexuality of True Emotion Mirrors on this site, I thought it’s time to pay a visit to the True Emotion Mirrors who are simply not that interested in sex at all. I do have a few stern words to share, as per usual, but also, hopefully, a few encouraging […]

Sex Worth Waiting For

We date with displeasure and expectation of finding nothing exciting and just more of the same disappointing and mundane that everyone is selling, right..? Today, I heard this amazing sentence that kicked things right into place for me – as innocent as it was, it was the hottest thing I’ve heard in a long time.

Love Relationships for Those with a High Sex Drive

Those of us who have a very high sex drive tend to feel that we are required to choose between a life of meaningless sex or a permanent love relationship, but that a highly sexual love relationship is simply non-existent, so rare, that there is not even a myth supporting its existence! Let’s just create […]

“You can’t base a relationship on sex” they say. Why not? Is my question.

Is there any logic behind the claim that you cannot base a relationship on sex? We are, still, talking about sexual or romantic relationships, that should, logically, have at least something to do with sex. I understand that families are one thing, but if we are talking about natural relationships, children come as a result of uncontrolled sexual urges, don’t they…?

What is to be considered “normal sex”?

Have you ever wondered what people consider normal sex? Maybe you’ve been wondering it for a long time because nobody you know is having it. 😀 I am in the perfect position to tell you what is considered normal sex in real life scenarios, forgetting psychological study and medians that people draw… This is the real world:

Sex Perversions and Romance

We all want great sex, and we all want to experience true love and an amazing romance. Unfortunately, what we instinctively know to be true at 17, will start to lose it’s feasibility as we get older. The reason is that our culture is inherently cynical, and the warnings of “do not get hurt” will […]

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