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Your Sex Personality

If you thought knowing your sexual orientation was enough to land you in a happy relationship, you thought wrong… Of course. Not even knowing your kinks and perversions is quite enough to be picking the right partners you will never get tired of, two kinksters may have a completely different idea of what is hot, […]

The rejection and denial of casual sex between True Emotion Mirrors

I can say I am always GOBSMACKED to hear reactions such as that from men. Women, I understand… From my perspective, but they probably don’t mean what I suppose they mean, initially. Coming from a very sexually liberated country, all sexual oppression and judging people for the number of partners they’ve had or something similar […]

The oppression on male sexuality by female sex coalition

There is more than one way the male sexuality is being oppressed in our societies these days, but this comes in the form of having women essentially silently agree on what is OK for another woman to agree to in bed and what is not that creates oppression on male sexuality. Interestingly enough, this, of […]

“Just sex” and how do we know it for what it is

“Anyone who has ever tried ‘just sex’ knows it’s nothing exciting. However, whether it’s just sex or something amazing cannot be measured by a number of dates or years of marriage. Sometimes there’s more true passion in one kiss or one dance that leads nowhere than there is in an entire 50 year marriage. 50 […]

Societal shame of sex directly creates sexual abuse victims

To sexually spoil someone, you need to have something to spoil; sexual purity and disinterest in sex. To create a sexual trauma, we first must agree that there is something wrong with sexual intercourse happening in certain circumstances, without an exception. It’s the without an exception part that worries me.

The deep love men need, and the passionate sex that women crave

The amount of damage religious teachings and general life advice have done to the human love life is unbelievable. One of the biggest wrongs it has committed is making sex a dirty act, or somehow inferior to “just love”, or made marriage and love a thing to bargain survival for. This hasn’t done any favors […]