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You have to say NO to stuff that makes you unhappy.

When you’re a grown-up, you have to become your own parent. You have to know to say no to stuff that’s bad for you, even though you’re legally old enough to take part in it. It’s YOUR responsibility now, and you can also say yes to things that make you happy: things that are good […]

Saying no to sexual acts: Be willing to be considered a prude or a bad sport #MeToo

Ladies and gentlemen, both young and old, please hear me on this. The way people get coaxed into sexual acts they don’t want to do, (wherever your limit may be) is the fear of being labeled a prude, a goody-two-shoe, or a bad sport. This is the opposite fear of being labeled a slut. Listen […]

Enjoying your own rape creates the shame

Rape or sexual abuse is an act of shaming a person. Without the shame, it’s called “taking her”, or “over-powering her”. The people who most suffer from rape are people who believe that  Having had a sexual intercourse (at all) is a shameful act to some degree. (Compared to, for instance, having shaken hands with […]

Rape becomes very nasty when it turns angry

A rape that happens as an act of hatred and dominance is a more difficult one to tolerate and get over, but also it is directly dependent on societal circumstance to be even a necessary – for the most part.

Why rape happens

To create a tempting plate for a rapist to feed on, we need to create a society where sexual purity is valued as a feminine virtue and also elevate a woman over a man if she manages to keep that “purity” intact. Without that setting, rape becomes somewhat boring.

What if I enjoyed my own rape? What does that make me?

There are normal women, who get aroused by the idea the idea of rape. If a woman feels a twinge of excitement or sexual pleasure during her assault, she can go into an absolute state of confusion and shame – how can someone be so sick as to get pleasure out of this?

Societal shame of sex directly creates sexual abuse victims

To sexually spoil someone, you need to have something to spoil; sexual purity and disinterest in sex. To create a sexual trauma, we first must agree that there is something wrong with sexual intercourse happening in certain circumstances, without an exception. It’s the without an exception part that worries me.