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Messages from Sebastyne as chosen by the Universe.

People with intimacy issues will hang onto relationships in which they are not quite wanted.

When you have a fear of intimacy, you run from relationships that are actually available to you and cling to those that are not. That makes the relationship very superficial and thus manageable for someone who has a fear of intimacy. They will never have to measure up to the expectations of a spouse or […]

The sexual energy (and love) between True Emotion Mirrors is strong enough for others to sense it, too.

True Emotion Mirrors find it difficult to hide the sexual and romantic energy between them. Especially if they are not used to hiding it (as some people can do), they seem like flaming red fireballs near each other and feel that way, too. (No wonder other theories call them twin flames.) It is the kind […]

The fear of losing the feeling of love and desire.

There is a soulmate type that I’ve named the Vaporizing Lust Mirror, which is effectively not a soulmate of great significance but rather a Trail Companion* that you have a fleeting, temporary sexual and/or romantic attraction toward. However, that attraction vanishes very soon after you get to act on it. It is based on the […]

the Cat Type Thinkers; Give rules without passion.

Us the Cat Type Thinkers have a very common trait that we do… wrong. We write rules and codes of conduct with PASSION, with an expectation that people will break them, and therefore, we emphasize them emotionally so that they basically read, “do this, or it means war.” I am the WORST offender myself, and […]

Is it fear of intimacy or are you just holding out for something better?

Just to clear out a few more issues out of the way of your future mind-blowing romantic and sex life I will dip my spoon into this soup; Fear of intimacy is another one of those accusations that untrusted or unwanted people use in order to coerce the objects of their affections to lower their bar for them in their bid to gain access to people they would otherwise never reach…

the Cat Type Thinkers Coaching (Passion and devotion driven people)

You are among friends. As a Cat Type Thinkers, I understand that you don’t really seek for guidance often, if ever, let alone seek advice or someone else to make life decisions for you. You are here to be inspired, to be excited, to find courage, ideas… To renew your dreams and your hope for […]

True Emotion Mirror Passion

This is a difficult topic to write about because there is so much to say about True Emotion Mirror sexuality and yet you want to say so little. 🙂 It is such an intimate thing, but also so wild and raw, that you’d rather keep it to yourself. Yet, it’s so powerful, that even people […]