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Sex Worth Waiting For

We date with displeasure and expectation of finding nothing exciting and just more of the same disappointing and mundane that everyone is selling, right..? Today, I heard this amazing sentence that kicked things right into place for me – as innocent as it was, it was the hottest thing I’ve heard in a long time.

Get the most out of your guilty pleasures, even the sexy ones

Guilty pleasures are things that feel so good to you that you feel you don’t deserve to have it. Being focussed on the guilt, however, will make your partner feel unwanted and revolting, or disconnected from, so if you’re going to do it, you might as well feel the pleasure of doing it… Freely.

Love Relationships for Those with a High Sex Drive

Those of us who have a very high sex drive tend to feel that we are required to choose between a life of meaningless sex or a permanent love relationship, but that a highly sexual love relationship is simply non-existent, so rare, that there is not even a myth supporting its existence! Let’s just create […]

“You can’t base a relationship on sex” they say. Why not? Is my question.

Is there any logic behind the claim that you cannot base a relationship on sex? We are, still, talking about sexual or romantic relationships, that should, logically, have at least something to do with sex. I understand that families are one thing, but if we are talking about natural relationships, children come as a result of uncontrolled sexual urges, don’t they…?

What is to be considered “normal sex”?

Have you ever wondered what people consider normal sex? Maybe you’ve been wondering it for a long time because nobody you know is having it. 😀 I am in the perfect position to tell you what is considered normal sex in real life scenarios, forgetting psychological study and medians that people draw… This is the real world:

Sex Perversions and Romance

We all want great sex, and we all want to experience true love and an amazing romance. Unfortunately, what we instinctively know to be true at 17, will start to lose it’s feasibility as we get older. The reason is that our culture is inherently cynical, and the warnings of “do not get hurt” will […]

Your Sex Personality

If you thought knowing your sexual orientation was enough to land you in a happy relationship, you thought wrong… Of course. Not even knowing your kinks and perversions is quite enough to be picking the right partners you will never get tired of, two kinksters may have a completely different idea of what is hot, […]

Sexuality and Poly-relationships and Platonic Gender Preferences

I haven’t even TOUCHED on stuff like cross-dressing, transgender stuff, pan-sexuality and all of that, I am still just talking everyday normal people who go about their days thinking “this is what sex is, and this is what I’m used to”, and I find enough possible type combinations to make anyone want to shoot themselves. […]

Why are we still arguing over something as simple as gay marriage?

This is going to hit you in the gut so bad. We’ve been arguing over stuff like gay marriage for yonks now. Every the Savants* in this world has already decided, many times over, that it is none of their business who people choose to love and care for and call their spouse, even […]

The Deep Love a Man Needs and The Sexual Pleasure a Woman Craves.

Edited: October 2023. The extent of damage caused by religious teachings to human love lives is astounding. One of the major wrongs it has committed is portraying sex as a dirty act or somehow inferior to “love.” This has not been beneficial to either women or men and even though the original reason for the […]

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