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Vanity – physical fitness and good looks, living for sex.

When I tried to put my finger on why I was feeling very unhappy in life, I realized at the core of it all was the lack of great sex and, being married at the time, the realization I’d never have an opportunity to find it, if I stayed married. My then-husband is a great […]

How to snare your True Emotion Mirror; Sex, food, and good advice.

You’re going to die (laughing) when you get it. We’ve created all this complication around bagging a bloke. đŸ˜€ All it takes is sex, food, and good advice. This sounds so stupid—or what I’ve thought it needs sounds stupid—I don’t know which. Love confessions will backfire almost 100%, no matter how much you want to […]

Transitioning a body doesn’t make a CIS-gendered person trans. It’ll just reverse the original problem.

Now. A phobia is an irrational fear of something—a form of insanity. While most people’s fear of the trans movement is quite rational, the current fear and bigotry toward CIS-gendered straight people aren’t quite as. What kids don’t necessarily understand: Taking hormones won’t grow you a penis or a vagina, even if you start them […]

Women who are shy about their sexy bits…

Here’s a thing. Sometimes us girls pretend to be more prudish than what we actually are for higher kicks. It feels good or better to be “forcibly” exposed compared to volunteering it. I don’t mean actual force but you know… A man gently but firmly removes whatever covers the parts he wants to get access […]

Is it right to feel sex would be a factor in a relationship based on true romantic love?

Yes. There is absolutely no reason why sex would go away from a relationship between two physically healthy people who are in love IF they are sexual in the first place. There are people who are asexual, and there’s nothing to change that, but they shouldn’t be in relationships with sexual people. Asexual people are […]

What makes a sexy guy, like a rock star, sexy?

You’d think money and status is the answer with all women, but that’s not true. The irony is that a rock star ticks the boxes for most women for different reasons, some of which are reasons the rock stars themselves would rather not tick any boxes over. Let’s break it down, shall we? Taming him. […]

You don’t need to lock step with the rest of your gender.

It is OVERLY SIMPLISTIC to say, “Men want that” and “Women want this.” TYPICALLY, because we all have a freaking NOD syndrome, we get involved with people who we don’t really like. Therefore, we get a twisted idea of what men want and what women want. A NOD syndrome is my humoristic name for the […]

What are reasonable expectations in a relationship? How much attention? Sex? Together-time?

The purpose of a relationship is to make you feel loved, wanted, cared for, happy, and fulfilled. If those things are not there, the relationship does not fulfill its purpose. What is reasonable is not the question. The question is: is what you are getting enough for you? Another question may be: Is what you […]

Gender transitioning (or any other big life choice) is not something you do as a favor to other people.

Transitioning genders can be a nuisance for everyone around you. You’re being a pest, right? The thing is, however, that you have every right to be a pest in this world if your happiness and well-being require it. You are allowed to be difficult, but you are NOT allowed to be difficult ON PURPOSE, just […]

As a strategy, refusing sex from a guy is a terrible one.

Mind you, I’m saying STRATEGY. This is the keyword here: strategy to bag the bloke. I don’t mean you should sleep with every guy who wants to sleep with you at once; I’m saying being calculative about who you sleep with is a terrible strategy. Sex should happen when you both want it. Sex should […]

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