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Gender equality is not a mutual permission to abuse the opposite gender.

the Normal Person* are hierarchical. This means, that they are always looking to dominate and to submit. Equality, in itself, is a profoundly the Cat Thinking concept that we’re trying to teach the Normal Person*, in vain. The Normal Person* thinkers are fixated on dominance. Therefore, the feminist movement, to them, male or female the […]

Stop fighting your very nature (even if it is common, gender-conformist, and not weird at all.)

Individuality is an ideal that should liberate you from the norm and expectations and allow you to be your authentic person, no matter how weird it is. THIS gets a lot of people (Normal Person*) quite confused. Typically, Normal Person* are quite common and ordinary, and when everything around them is about individuality and alternative […]

Don’t assume “female sexuality” equates with “lesbianism”

Lesbians don’t like to have sex with men. They find this idea rather repulsive. This has long been assumed to be the general consensus among women of all sexual orientations, but OBVIOUSLY, it doesn’t apply to heterosexual woman. People, other than straight women, tend to have this idea that “female sexuality” is a brand of […]

When you’re picking your sexual identity, imagine you’re reading a menu.

Sometimes, there’s a pressure to “choose the right way of being” as per what is in and what is out, what gives you acceptance and approval, a sense of belonging rather than what actually is authentic for you. For the purpose of Free Spirit Theory, what is important is the authentic way of being, not […]

How to take sexual identity labels?

There are two types of people: those who view these identity labels as descriptive words, that help us communicate what we are and what makes us happy, and those, who take them as limiting and separating labels that create unnecessary complications in their lives. I am, again, talking about the Savants* and the Young […]

How to deal with your other people’s and your family member’s sexuality?

We used to be able to ignore other people’s sexuality with relative certainty. Just look away and pretend it’s not there. With the Internet, it has become more obvious that people we didn’t think had any sexual thoughts at all have an active OnlyFans account or a vibrant social life on Adult Friend Finder or […]

There is NO age where female heterosexuality is accepted by society.

I remember having this frustrated thought at the age of 17 or so, “I wonder how old I have to get before people trust I know my own mind and my own sexuality?” At the age of 47, after watching a YouTube video about a 67-year-old OnlyFans model, the answer is there is no such […]

No label – no sex!

Here’s an idea: if a grown person cannot put a sexual preference label on themselves, assume, rather that they don’t have preferences, that they don’t have desires AT ALL. If they don’t know what they want, they don’t know what they don’t want, either, and that makes them TOO IMMATURE for sex. Simple as that. […]

If you need others to convert to your sexual orientation to feel OK to be it, you’ll need to work on that.

There is a good slew of sexual orientations and identities in this world. We don’t all like the other’s way of being sexual. We find it weird. That doesn’t mean we need to have ISSUES with other people’s weirdness or judge them for being the way they are. Jokingly, I added this to the 10 […]

How do you know you’re gay or straight?

I’ve got this system. :p Everyone is either 1, 2, or 3 -point gay or straight: 1 point gay/straight You are able to perform sexually with that particular gender IF YOU HAVE TO. Still, you don’t really enjoy it, and it requires a lot of effort – and you wouldn’t do it unless, for some […]

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