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Do you feel ridiculous because you want love or sex so much?

It is ridiculous, you know that, to feel ridiculous for wanting love or thinking you’d be hot enough for someone to want to have sex with you? You know it, logically, that you’re quite good enough, but yet, you can’t quite convince your mind it is ridiculous to feel ridiculous, and then you feel a […]

People want fast and easy company as much as they accept easy sex.

People are social beings. We rarely prefer our own company to ANY company at all. It is also true that if someone is a social person, they’ll rather feel that telling someone they don’t even want to hang out with you is such a seriously offensive thing to say that they really find it difficult […]

Is non-committal sex harmful to your psyche?

When I was younger, I was warned a lot about the dangers of non-committal sex. I assume the same warning still goes around. Particularly with women, the assumption is that commitment and permanence is the key to happy sex life, but I do have to, again, point out that what breaks one person makes another. […]

Sexual oppression vs. Sexual suppression.

There’s a big difference between the sexually oppressed (like myself) and the sexually suppressed. Sexually oppressed are fine with their sexuality but others around them are not. “You’re not gay! You don’t get to be gay!” That’s sexual oppression. Sexual suppression comes from the person themselves: “I.. I… I am not gay. I shouldn’t feel […]

Good sex is rather simple, really.

It is ironic, I must say. The insanely famous men who accompany me in spirit told me this thing, how they struggle to get good sex out of their relationships. You might find that surprising, right? However, when you think of it, it makes perfect sense. Every woman they’re with is putting in their best […]

Being sexy means being willing to be “used” for another person’s (sexual) pleasure.

While you don’t have to be very talkative or bubbly to be highly attractive to the opposite gender,1 there are things you cannot do and remain attractive no matter WHO you are. No matter how sexy you are physically speaking, no matter how much money you have, or what your reputation is, once you start […]

Other reasons for feeling like “you’re in the wrong gender”.

I do not dispute the idea that sometimes people authentically are born in the wrong body. I am a spiritual teacher, and I believe it is entirely possible that the soul desires to try out life in a different gender for a variety of reasons. To me, that thought doesn’t feel outrageous at all. However, […]

“I already have a boy/girlfriend” – sex at work place.

The Normal Person* and the Savants* also vary dramatically in how they value their romantic relationships. This becomes very difficult when you have to share a work place with both the Savants* and the Normal Person*. You will never hear a Savants* say “I already have a significant other” to mean “I […]

Clarity to your exact sexual orientation.

The Universe asks you to ponder this a little: What is your EXACT sexual orientation? I’ll give you some questions the meanings of which may not be instantly obvious. Just go with the feeling, and allow yourself to linger in the questions too, the feelings they bring up. This is not a test; this is […]

Heterosexual women are different from normal women.

Most women, so many, in fact, that many people believe all women to be, are bisexual. Many, too, are lesbians who are not even aware of the fact yet, because we don’t truly know or talk about heterosexuality in women. It is so little discussed; it seems like a non-existent reminiscent of the past that […]

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