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You can’t gender unconform if you don’t believe in gender stereotypes.

If you don’t truly believe gender roles or gender traits are real, who the fuck do you “feel like a woman” and “feel like you are a man in a woman’s body”? Yes, it might be complicated, but that’s people. People are complicated. Just fuck please don’t cut off your wiener before you realize men […]

When your identity was based on being the lover of a Reverse Mirror.

It can feel like the world as you knew it sifts underneath your feet when you discover the person you thought you were born to love is actually everything except what you thought they were. The Angel turned out to be an evil witch… The “bad boy” turned out to be a boring truth-teller and […]

What I see when I look at women (a study to heterosexuality in women +)

They say most women are bisexual, and this is, I believe, true. (It is also to be said that most men are bisexual, too, but that’s generally speaking not advertised as a “sexy fact”.) I am, personally, one of the freaks who are heterosexual. Namely, heterosexual, heteroromantic, but biplatonic, meaning I only assign sexual and […]

Which gender is the best; men or women (Yes I know. Post for people who think at the level of a 6-year-old.)

And no. I will not stop adult baby shaming. Only adult babies who literally wear diapers are fine by me, because, fetish. Anyway, I feel like I need to make it clear that no, I don’t think men are better than women, I’m saying women shouldn’t be given special treatment based on being a female. […]

Gender identity cannot be based on gender stereotypes!

I worry about people of this modern generation. They are being told that gender identity is somewhat of a mysterious “spectrum”. It isn’t. Gender is binary. Gender stereotypes and gender roles, however, are archaic. I don’t care if you’re a man who loves cooking and wears a dress. You’re still a man to me. Whatever […]

One Point Gay and other precise sexual orientations

I feel there is a need to specify sexual orientations and how they work. A person will connect/bond with another person through 3 primary emotions; platonic love, romantic love, and sexual attraction. (This post is not about) We could discuss sexual love, too, but that would be a combination of romantic love and sexual attraction […]

You’d relax a lot if you knew how little other unusually sexy people judge you for your feelings

I know the headline makes very little sense at first. I’ll have to explain a bit. Beautiful people, men, and women alike, feel continually judged for wanting to reserve their monogamous romantic love for another equally attractive person. If you can only have one, and you’re a full ten, you rightly assume that you have […]

Why is it so awkward to date people if you’re sexy (and you know it)

I’m going to throw in some bullet points to paint a quick picture: If you’re (interested in) dating someone equally sexy as you are (a Full 10.) You are both used to being chased by the opposite (preferred) gender. You may not even understand their signals when the balance is equal. You associate “women” or […]

It is high time people will stop associating the term “female sexuality” as a form of lesbianism (alone)

It is astonishing how the idea that women are not very sexual or that women will only be turned on by cuddles and commitment persists in the minds of all people… Apart from hetero- and physiosexual women. There are many reasons why women who ARE turned on by men (not ALL men, obviously) hide the […]

Romantic relationships with no sex involved – is that supposed to be enough?

In the following, I am in no way suggesting that people should always do relationships the same way. Not at all. Everyone who has listened to me for five seconds should know this. However, what people seem to insist on having the right to do is to dictate the rules of the relationship THEY WANT […]

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