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The Real Life True Emotion Mirror sex, as in TrEmoR Sex

I will jump right onto a topic request from Anna, because this is one of those posts that I would love to talk about, and still hate the thought of. 😀 The reason being, that I have very limited physical experience of this myself, and my knowledge is based on spirit contacts and a few […]

Adults who feel pressured to have sex by cultural expectations

You may have heard of adult babies and asexuals, but you might have missed the group of people who are really neither, whose interest in sex is so low that they do not even wish to give themselves a label to explain their disinterest, but who feel like it is abnormal to want sex so much and feel pressured into a sexual template when they form relationships…

The Power of Pestering People for Sex, Love, or Friendship Until They Give In

Ever met someone who pesters people for love and sex or friendship? The kind of people who will say anything it takes to land a good deal on any of those fronts? And again, don’t get alarmed. I, too, love the kind of humorous begging, the kind that accepts no for an answer, if not […]

Online dating will involve a healthy amount of talk about sex. It should.

I love online dating. I love it mainly because of the incredible amount of good stuff that comes into your inbox. I love the conversations about relationships, sex, and sexuality, all those topics that normally wouldn’t happen, but on a dating site is a natural thing to discuss, even if only on a theoretical level. […]

Why do some people (the Normal Person*) fear sex?

Remember that for the Normal Person*, everything is a social or a communal thing. Sex is no different. The Normal Person* have an interesting fear of intimacy. They fear everything one-on-one, because that, to them, feels like they have been ousted from the security of the group. When separated from the group, they feel they […]

We have clear rules on how to deal with our child’s homosexuality…

… but parents still struggle to accept the sexuality of their straight child, especially their daughter. If you heard that your child is secretly gay, your brain falls into gear immediately: “Do not judge, love doesn’t ask for gender, it’s their choice and their sexuality is their business.” You would immediately start looking for ways […]

What your primary alliances say about your sexuality?

When we go into relationships, people can have very different expectations from those relationships. To some it is clear that your friends are the most important relationship in your life, some consider it to be the family, and some take it for given that if you are in a romantic/sexual relationship with someone, that should be […]

Relationship guide for those who are not really interested in sex

I have noticed that two groups are constantly at odds with each other when it comes to relationships. The sexual and the asexual. (Asexual meaning a person with little or no sexual interest towards other people.) Relationships, to an asexual, can be annoying, as people associate all romantic relationship types (mono or poly) with sex. […]

Rewire your brain for a sexy wife

Dear men, I am going to take this opportunity to chew your ears off in the nicest way it’s ever been chewed up. In a rather sexy way, and it’s okay to get turned on. It’s kind of the point of this article, so never mind my modesty. Okay. This is the thing. I am […]

The trick to sexy is to be everything that you are at once

Charismatic, alluring, captivating, whatever the word… Whenever a person is something amazing, it all really comes down to their ability to be everything they are at once. Clearly, we do not do everything that we do all at once, you don’t parent your kids while you fuck your girlfriend, nor do you serve your clients […]

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