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If You’re Super Sexy

I noticed this on an adult dating site… The normal looking men would approach me with very little worries about being rejected. They’d go “oh, you look stunning, I’d love to fuck you all night…” and then they’d elaborate. They would not hold back – and I didn’t want them to. I lapped it up as […]

Why I, a sex-obsessed female, want a dress code

A dress code should not be needed. It SHOULD NOT, but it is. People dress up in certain ways to convey a message, and the less we have codes, the harder it is to express oneself through a coded message in a dress. Back in the victorian times, a naughty girl could get a man aroused by showing him her angle. Now, a girl with no intent of having sexual relations with anyone can walk around half naked with no fear of sexual attention. That’s simply BORING.

Women blog about sex all the time, but what about sex blogs by men?

You won’t find it difficult to find sex blogs written by women with one simple Google search, but to find a personal sex blog by a man… That is a trick and a half. Men cannot say certain things out loud, and I really wish someone did. I am personally gagging for them, so if you could help me out and send me links, please.

Your non-sexual gender preference

An aspect that is not a very well known factor in successful relationships is the way we make friends and who we prefer for company. Being into the same stuff is important to the way that we connect and interact; even the way we think about sex and what we find hot about it depends on the company we prefer…

What is and how to have a sexy personality?

“If you often fuck someone intelligent with a great personality, at which point does that become substance abuse?” I said that. Did you get that? Got it, got it? :p If not, perhaps you need to read this article carefully. 😉 Depending on who you ask, what is defined as a sexy personality varies a […]

Sex and Business

If you are currently trying to make a good living for yourself, and you think of yourself as someone to whom great sex life matters a lot… If you do not feel sexy working, you won’t be succeeding. If there is ANYTHING ELSE amiss in your life, it will also hinder your career and your […]

The non-sexual or low-sex drive True Emotion Mirrors

With all the focus on the sexuality of True Emotion Mirrors on this site, I thought it’s time to pay a visit to the True Emotion Mirrors who are simply not that interested in sex at all. I do have a few stern words to share, as per usual, but also, hopefully, a few encouraging […]

“What’s there not to like?” the Difference Between Presumptuous and Sexy

There are two ways to take that “What’s there not to like” attitude towards other people. One is blatantly ignoring one’s own flaws and insisting they do not exist and that other people are in no way different, let alone better, compared to you, and the fun and flirty way, acknowledging one’s flaws and failures, other people’s value and assets, and working with whatever you’ve got…

Are You Asexual or a True Closet Pervert?

I know a few people who consider themselves asexual, but who, to me, seem more like absolute closet perverts, which means that they have so many taboo fetishes that they do not even want to look at themselves in the sexual light. They might have also noticed that normal sex scenarios simply do not get […]

Gender Bias Against Men

We are all more than familiar with all the ways that women get mistreated and pushed aside… But nobody talks about the real gender bias, that MORE THAN OFTEN is about gender bias that goes AGAINST men. When two equal candidates are applying for the same job these days, the chances are that the vote […]

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