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How much awareness of your sexuality is fun, and how much of it just spoils the surprise?

There is the problem of consent. It’s all playing it quite safe, even too safe. We should aim for a society that accepts a wound or two in grown-up people rather than trying to molly-coddle everyone into a ball of cotton wool for safe protection at all times. We kinda like things rough at times, […]

Always protect and serve your own sexuality.

Two things in this world will make you depressed with absolute certainty: Deciding to stick to realistic goals and deciding to suffocate your own sexuality at the altar of appropriateness. Just reading that sentence makes me want to shoot a bullet through my own head. Nothing has killed MY will to live more effectively than […]

Don’t assume “female sexuality” equates with “lesbianism”

Lesbians don’t like to have sex with men. They find this idea rather repulsive. This has long been assumed to be the general consensus among women of all sexual orientations, but OBVIOUSLY, it doesn’t apply to heterosexual woman. People, other than straight women, tend to have this idea that “female sexuality” is a brand of […]

How to deal with your other people’s and your family member’s sexuality?

We used to be able to ignore other people’s sexuality with relative certainty. Just look away and pretend it’s not there. With the Internet, it has become more obvious that people we didn’t think had any sexual thoughts at all have an active OnlyFans account or a vibrant social life on Adult Friend Finder or […]

It is high time people will stop associating the term “female sexuality” as a form of lesbianism (alone)

It is astonishing how the idea that women are not very sexual or that women will only be turned on by cuddles and commitment persists in the minds of all people… Apart from hetero- and physiosexual women. There are many reasons why women who ARE turned on by men (not ALL men, obviously) hide the […]

What Your Most Intense Soulmates Can Do to Your Sexuality

Love is a wonderful thing. When it hits and you “go completely faggot” over someone as a friend of mine laughed. “I can’t even use another word, I went faggot for him, completely!” The funniest thing that had ever happened to him, a straight guy who met the childhood love of his True Emotion Mirror, […]

What your primary alliances say about your sexuality?

When we go into relationships, people can have very different expectations from those relationships. To some it is clear that your friends are the most important relationship in your life, some consider it to be the family, and some take it for given that if you are in a romantic/sexual relationship with someone, that should be […]

Sexuality and Poly-relationships and Platonic Gender Preferences

I haven’t even TOUCHED on stuff like cross-dressing, transgender stuff, pan-sexuality and all of that, I am still just talking everyday normal people who go about their days thinking “this is what sex is, and this is what I’m used to”, and I find enough possible type combinations to make anyone want to shoot themselves. […]

Your sexuality: “I freeze around the person I want” – what to do?

Do you find yourself freezing near the person that you want to attract? Like you would render back to the level of a 12-year old, not knowing what to do or say next, afraid to say the wrong thing? Yeah, I know what you’re going through. Your sexuality is blocked out from view because you feel […]

The development of our natural sexuality through several lifetimes

The irony is, that separating boys from girls at an early age, and then confining them into lonely and scary places like boy schools and girl schools is a perfect breeding ground for homosexual connections. People feel sexual where they are safe, and if their girlfriend or their boyfriend makes them feel safe in a […]

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