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Monday, February 17th, 2025 at
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February 17, 2025 Tags: Authenticity, love, shame and guilt
Platonically or sexually. Do not let people shame you off your authentic self. I know it’s hard to fight the urge to be acceptable but inauthentic. To hide your true self because you think people will hate you for the real you – or consider it their sole right to be what you want to […]
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Saturday, February 10th, 2024 at
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June 13, 2024 Tags: Dog Type Thinker, friends, shame and guilt, Thinker Type
If the Dog Type Thinker has decided they want to be friends with you, there are not many things that can stop them. They are amazingly good at tiring you out, and forcing you to cut your losses; “if it means that much to them, FINE, let’s be friends.” That friendship, obviously, on your side, […]
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Tuesday, February 6th, 2024 at
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December 24, 2024 Tags: feelings, Narcissism, shame and guilt, Soulmate
At the core of narcissistic personality disorder, is the complete inability to cope with feelings of guilt, shame, and embarrassment. They also feel shame for not being perfect or at least for not being the least flawed one they know. This means, that they never admit to being guilty of doing something, and will avoid […]
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Tuesday, February 6th, 2024 at
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December 24, 2024 Tags: Narcissism, shame and guilt
Dishonesty in feelings is very human. We all do it up to a point. The logic is about the same with everybody, but the way we handle things is considered narcissistic if we force other people to keep functioning in a manner that allows us to not face our own shame (and guilt, which is […]
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Friday, August 25th, 2023 at
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June 13, 2024 Tags: Partial Principle Mirrors, Personality Mirror Soulmate Typology, shame and guilt
When the Dog Type Thinker Thinking Trail Companion* is about to lose their friend or a family member, they’ll often employ the strategy of shaming, blaming, guilt-tripping, and scaring you to stop you from leaving. It’s good to be aware of it and know that their illogical logic is simply trying to poke holes in […]
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Monday, May 29th, 2023 at
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Tags: shame and guilt
There are sins, and then there are huge sins. What we do before we do something wrong is to find a justification for it. Nazi Germany was built on justification, just to point out that this is not a small thing. It can lead to horrible things. Having said that, justification can be used for […]
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Monday, March 27th, 2023 at
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Tags: love, shame and guilt
Remember the character in Game of Thrones, Jorah Mormont, the knight devoted to the Mother of Dragons, Khaleesi? Did you think he’s pathetic or heroic? I suppose he had his moments on both ends of the spectrum, but mostly, he was admirably in tune with the fact his love was one-sided. He put himself at […]
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Sunday, January 9th, 2022 at
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June 13, 2024 Tags: privacy, shame and guilt
Yeah so this morning two things happened; I realized narcissism is about SHAME and covering up shame narcissists can’t handle, and about establishing the pecking order. There’s a certain point when they feel worthless and all that, where a healthy mind can cope quite well. Eventually, the discussion led to the fact that they’ve been […]
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Sunday, August 1st, 2021 at
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June 13, 2024 Tags: Cat Type Thinkers, Dog Type Thinker, Emotional Boundaries, Healthy Masculinity, love, Respect, Self-Worth, shame and guilt, Thinker Type
the Dog Type Thinker function largely on the feeling of love. The Cat Type Thinkers are far more interested in earning people’s respect. The Dog Type Thinker are very much like small children after attention, where as the Cat Type Thinkers act like young adults trying to prove their capability in this world. The Cat […]
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Tuesday, April 20th, 2021 at
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Tags: shame and guilt
Not all shame walks lead to what you want, don’t get me wrong, but everything you want but don’t have, is at the end of the Walk of Shame. This means that the most likely reason you don’t get what you want is that you’re too ashamed to admit it is what you want, too […]
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