Not all shame walks lead to what you want, don’t get me wrong, but everything you want but don’t have, is at the end of the Walk of Shame. This means that the most likely reason you don’t get what you want is that you’re too ashamed to admit it is what you want, too […]

Guilt is supposedly a feeling we get when we have wronged another person, we’ve caused undue harm on others. That’s what it SHOULD come from. However, guilt-like feelings can come as a result of a guilt-trip, when someone is trying to make you feel guilty for not doing something FOR another person. Guilt shouldn’t come […]

Whose agenda are they driving? Who is going to benefit from your submission? Who is being selfish in this equation? Who has to give up something vital to their rightful happiness over whose potentially selfish benefit? You cannot be selfish if another person is asking you to sacrifice your happiness for theirs. Remind yourself of […]

It is easy to feel guilty for one’s own success when looking at others who are lacking everything – including talent. How do you deal with your own good luck when others around you do not have the first thing and you, yourself, are drowning in luxury…?