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Would a True Emotion Mirror ever give you silence treatment?

Silence treatment is a very narcissistic method of communication. While it may work between regular lovers, for True Emotion Mirrors, it seems damn near impossible thing to do. That said, just because someone keeps talking to you even when they’re angry doesn’t mean they’re your True Emotion Mirror, and just because someone isn’t talking to […]

If words don’t help, try silence (treatment).

There are people who don’t respond to direct speech or words. They are as if they don’t even hear words; they only hear the tone of voice without a link to the words. If you fear rejection, they may think of it as your fear of lying to their face, or fear of them, period. […]

If your politically correct opinions meet silence, stop talking.

If you are an opinionated person and you talk a lot, you may notice that your audience is often silent. If your opinion locks step with the commonly held beliefs and ideas, your audience often chooses silence rather than defending their position or feelings, even if they’re alone with you. This is not a good […]

Never silence people you love, even if they’re saying things you don’t love hearing.

This is the tricky bit about love: it has to be real. And the one way to force yourself into fake relationships is to NOT LISTEN to your partner, friends, or family members. The fact is that A LOT OF RELATIONSHIPS function on the power of not listening to each other. You stop talking, or […]