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Can sex be your primary connection and it still be a True Emotion Mirror connection?

Yes, it can, and it kinda has to be. It, too, must be mutual, however, even if you have a mutual fetish for “forced” scenarios. But it cannot be your ONLY connection. Our sexuality is the thing that brings people together into a sexual relationship. A romantic/sexual relationship without sex is called a friendship, not […]

The purpose of communication is to make things better, not to find the person to blame.

There are people who communicate in order to find the scape goat. The person to blame. The real reason for communication is to find out what was and was not intended to be said, and how everyone feels in any given situation. It is NOT EASY to know what people feel and see from their […]

To make or break a persistent (unwanted) connection to someone who insists they love you…

If you are in a situation where someone is persistently in love with you and demanding a chance, give them permission to love you as much as they do, and give them a chance to prove to you that they do, indeed, love you. Do not promise to love them back, however, or to have […]

Why can’t we “just trust” the True Emotion Mirror connection?

A True Emotion Mirror connection benefits from certain innocent faith in love. Realism is a little toxic to it, but being a realist myself, I cannot help but analyze. “Why can’t you just trust it?” is like asking a cow to “just fly.” Maybe a better analogy would be an injured bird. You can’t “just […]

A True Emotion Mirror bond never feels bad. If your connection feels bad, it’s something else.

Intense soulmate connections happen. Some of them feel good, some of them feel bad. The ones that feel bad are about something other than a True Emotion Mirror connection. A True Emotion Mirror always feels good to you, even if it goes dreadfully wrong. Even when you’re not talking, you feel better just knowing they’re […]

Looking for a connection in the confrontation.

The real reason for people picking a fight and seeking confrontation is probably that they’re looking for a connection with another person. However, when one such person is arguing with a connected person, their goal in that argument is different. One wants to solve their own lack of connection and make a friend by mutually […]

How to break an unwanted bond with a person you have a spirit connection to?

It is possible that an unwanted suitor, or a friend that should have never been a friend, a karmic soulmate, gains access to you in spirit. I have been in this situation for 13 years, and nothing I do or say will make them disappear. However, I just realized something. I don’t suffer from it […]

The danger is that when you act “unlovably” on purpose, all the wrong people will fall in love with you.

Let me tell you a harrowing story about my past. When I was growing up, I always knew I’d move somewhere far, far away from where I was born. I never really liked living where my parents lived, it all felt suffocating and small. Therefore, knowing one day I’d say goodbye to everyone I knew, […]

How to break the telepathic connection to unwanted people?

Please trust me that they are with you for a reason, but that reason isn’t necessarily to make up with them and reestablish a relationship with them. They may be there to teach you how they think so you can avoid karmic binding like this in the future. They may not be teaching this to […]

Who you want to be is more important to your authenticity than what people think you are or should be.

Authenticity is not an easy thing to tackle, especially if you’ve played along a bit too long. Still, I insist, that who you wish to be is far more important metric to who you authentically are than what you are thought to be let alone expected to be. Let’s use a negative example on this […]

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