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There’s a temptation of making yourself believe you’re in the right relationship.

Finding true love is difficult. Or super easy. It depends on your life situation, what you decided with your True Emotion Mirrors in the past life, and how often you’ve flaked the same way you’re tempted to do now… Have you ALWAYS chosen the quick and dirty route to relationships, or have you stayed true […]

You might be surprised that you don’t have to coax men or women into a relationship or romance nearly as much as you thought…

Heterosexual people have this problem… Men don’t really understand why women would want men into romantic situations with them, because they, themselves, don’t, and straight women feel exactly the same way about women. Note, that closet homosexuals understand very well why THEIR gender is desirable, and therefore, they exude confidence in relationships with the opposite […]

Why two Dog Type Thinking True Emotion Mirrors can make an easy transition to a relationship?

Dog Type Thinkers believe that being loved is the priviledge, not to love. Cat Type Thinkers have been the object of one-sided love for too often, to be unaware of how lacklustre it feels to be loved by someone you don’t love back. It feela like you’re trapped with a guilt trip to boot. That’s […]

The fact you’re looking for an excuse to end your relationship is a reason enough.

The fact you’re looking for an excuse to do something is always a good reason to actually do it, but when it comes to voluntary relationships that should make your life feel better to you, too, it is. A relationship is supposed to be symbiotic. You should get what you need to feel better in […]

Quite difficult to have a relationship with someone who doesn’t talk to you.

Why did they go? Oh how about you answer your fucking messages!!! Nobody wants to be alone in a relationship, you understand that, don’t you?

Sometimes, Cat Type Thinkers are terrified of rejection, utterly romantic, and very keen to form a relationship…

Cat Type Thinkers, men especially, often display the Avoidant Attachment Style, or disorder as it’s sometimes named. This is a reaction to the way people react to them, sometimes their parents and even a person with a Secure Attachment Style may show symptoms of the Avoidant Attachment Style. These are terms from the Attachment Theory, […]

Why “you’re making me unhappy” isn’t the same thing when they REFUSE a relationship with you

You may need help to explain this to someone, or you may need this explained to you: The Modern will complain: “But I want a relationship with you, and your rejection is making me unhappy. I would be happy in a relationship with you. Have sympathy.” The Timeless will complain: “I am not in love […]

Let your true love be a potato sack.

This is advice for ancient soul women, really. It applies to men, too, but the problem typically affects men: high-stress levels in a love relationship. Men are just about expected to levitate to be good enough for any woman at all, simultaneously as the expectations on women get less and less. To demand anything from […]

Do not get into a relationship with a “I’ll change him/her to a better person” mindset (without a permission).

Some people want to be a project to their lover, yes. There are people who wish someone would see their potential to be a perfect person. Sometimes, they dress in a weird way to denote that they are in dire need of someone to help them figure things out, but other people may dress in […]

Can sex be your primary connection and it still be a True Emotion Mirror connection?

Yes, it can, and it kinda has to be. It, too, must be mutual, however, even if you have a mutual fetish for “forced” scenarios. But it cannot be your ONLY connection. Our sexuality is the thing that brings people together into a sexual relationship. A romantic/sexual relationship without sex is called a friendship, not […]

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