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Messages from Sebastyne as chosen by the Universe.

Creating any kind of relationship with a Young Soul* is a lifetime commitment.

I’m not saying Old Souls* shouldn’t make friends or lovers with Young Souls*. I’m saying if you do, make it a life-long, commitment and also think about it into the future lifetimes; do you STILL want to do this, if this soul child was in your life again and again? Would you still love them? […]

Maybe you’re overthinking this relationship thing… Maybe you should just BE THERE.

Sometimes, especially if you’ve read about the “telepathic” connection True Emotion Mirrors share, you think understanding each other should be seamless. While we are telepathic and share some thoughts and feelings in that way, it doesn’t work on everything. We hide our insecurities and fears even from them. Where telepathy fails, words are a real […]

“You don’t trust me!” Is unconditional trust a sign of true love?

Unconditional trust is not a universally good sign in a relationship. How many times have you trusted someone from day one, who, in a short time, turns out to be an abusive narcissist? Your trust in a person is NOT a signal of YOUR issues, it’s a signal of THEIR trust in themselves. If they […]

There’s a temptation of making yourself believe you’re in the right relationship.

Finding true love is difficult. Or super easy. It depends on your life situation, what you decided with your True Emotion Mirrors in the past life, and how often you’ve flaked the same way you’re tempted to do now… Have you ALWAYS chosen the quick and dirty route to relationships, or have you stayed true […]

You might be surprised that you don’t have to coax men or women into a relationship or romance nearly as much as you thought…

Heterosexual people have this problem… Men don’t really understand why women would want men into romantic situations with them, because they, themselves, don’t, and straight women feel exactly the same way about women. Note, that closet homosexuals understand very well why THEIR gender is desirable, and therefore, they exude confidence in relationships with the opposite […]

Why two Dog Type Thinking True Emotion Mirrors can make an easy transition to a relationship?

Young Souls* believe that being loved is the priviledge, not to love. Old Souls* have been the object of one-sided love for too often, to be unaware of how lacklustre it feels to be loved by someone you don’t love back. It feela like you’re trapped with a guilt trip to boot. That’s why they’re […]

The fact you’re looking for an excuse to end your relationship is a reason enough.

The fact you’re looking for an excuse to do something is always a good reason to actually do it, but when it comes to voluntary relationships that should make your life feel better to you, too, it is. A relationship is supposed to be symbiotic. You should get what you need to feel better in […]

Quite difficult to have a relationship with someone who doesn’t talk to you.

Why did they go? Oh how about you answer your fucking messages!!! Nobody wants to be alone in a relationship, you understand that, don’t you?

Sometimes, Old Souls* are terrified of rejection, utterly romantic, and very keen to form a relationship…

Old Souls*, men especially, often display the Avoidant Attachment Style, or disorder as it’s sometimes named. This is a reaction to the way people react to them, sometimes their parents and even a person with a Secure Attachment Style may show symptoms of the Avoidant Attachment Style. These are terms from the Attachment Theory, which […]

Why “you’re making me unhappy” isn’t the same thing when they REFUSE a relationship with you

You may need help to explain this to someone, or you may need this explained to you: Young Soul* will complain: “But I want a relationship with you, and your rejection is making me unhappy. I would be happy in a relationship with you. Have sympathy.” Old Soul* will complain: “I am not in love […]

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