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How to end a relationship with the Normal Person*partner or friend with a relative ease.

the Normal Person* are somewhat rejection junky. They tend to get all excited if someone is actually trying to reject them; they seem to think that person is trying to take control of them and demonstrate superiority rather than break up with them. They tend not to really “believe” in breakups unless they’re the ones […]

He/She may not be looking for the same kind of “true love” as you are.

Don’t get me wrong; if you’ve found your True Emotion Mirror, even if you’re on different pages right now, it doesn’t mean you’re not in the same book or belong together in the last chapter. However, it is also entirely possible that you are thinking a side character in that book is your main character […]

If you’re rich and you’re trying to build a relationship with someone who is neither rich nor a gold digger… How to keep it classy?

Let’s, just for the sake of clarity, presume the rich person in this equation is a male, the poor person is a female, and you’re interested in pursuing a serious relationship with her… What would a non-gold-digging female expect of you? A gold digger obviously wants expensive gifts on top of love and affection, but […]

How exceptionally attractive people mess up their relationship with their potential true loves.

Exceptionally attractive people are used to being approached and chased by others into relationships. In normal social situations, people tend to avoid them because they are intimidating to talk to and pose a threat to any existing relationships people have as they create jealousy and insecurity in others. However, when it comes to romances, they […]

How to break a Antagonist Mirror Spirit (karmic soulmate) bond?

All and any soulmate bonds that you might want to break are broken the same way: through acceptance of the truth of your own feelings. By facing REALITIES. You must resolve your guilty feelings about leaving a person, and you have to learn to accept yourself as the person who would walk away from a […]

If someone insists you’re their True Emotion Mirror (or Precious Soulmate) you have to learn to ignore it.

I read somewhere that for Twin Flames to come together, all other relationships must be solved before that can happen. As the Personality Mirror Soulmate Typology is based on the same phenomenon, explained with new, more specific terms, I feel like I have to address this notion… And a few similar beliefs. We create our […]

How do you appreciate true love if that’s all you’ve ever known?

At 17, I wrote in my diary: “What would be so special about true love if it was easy to find.” That was the thought of a young woman who hadn’t found true love yet. The inexperience of it. The answer is “everything!” Everything is special about true love, and the difficulty of finding it […]

Don’t marry hoping to save the relationship.

If you marry (or have children) hoping to salvage the relationship by doing that, you’re trying to fix a small mistake of getting into a relationship with the wrong person with a huge mistake of committing (to start a family) with the wrong person. You’re trying to fix a problem with a bigger problem. We’ve […]

Is the True Emotion Mirror connection always romantic and sexual?

Yes. ALWAYS, by the very definition of it.1 Precious Soulmates, however, are the same thing with sex removed. The same thing, without the sexual/romantic bond, is called a Precious Soulmate connection, which is perfect in every way, including that you both agree that you are NOT connected sexually and romantically. You feel safe in your […]

Why men believe that women want money, power, and status out of a relationship.

Intelligent men have a few things in common: The ability to acquire wealth and a tendency to try and understand and structure their environment and teach others what they’ve learned. However, no matter how intelligent you are, you are largely limited to your observation of things. We tend not to meet a whole lot of […]

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