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If you want to find true love, you have to stop trying to fall in love.

Look. Mostly, people are a bit… Rubbish. You know? I’m stating it too strongly. People are awesome, but not when you TRY and fall in love with one of them. You’ll give too many chances. You brainwash yourself into being in love. You’ll lie to yourself about the virtues of your partner, their intent, their […]

Why aren’t you with your True Emotion Mirror (Twin Flame) yet?

Frustrated? I understand. BUT. There’s a reason why you’re not together, and it’s something you’d approve of. If you knew the reason, you’d accept it to be a valid, real reason; if you knew and understood it – because YOU made it so together with your True Emotion Mirror(s); you both (all) agree your separation […]

You decide what matters to you in a relationship.

There are people to whom stuff that matters to you in a partner does not matter to them. They’ll think that stuff is stupid or vacuous or shallow or childish. Some people go for connection; others go for commitment with or without connection. There is nothing wrong with either, as long as you know what […]

I think I’ve met my Twin Flame – but there’s two of them.

Let me first confess that I don’t believe in Twin Flames the way they are commonly written anymore. I used to. The description of how Twin Flames feel when they meet is perfectly accurate, but what brings about the connection, the theoretical part of it, is what I have found to be somewhat of an […]

Can a celebrity be a True Emotion Mirror (Twin Flame) of an unknown person?

The short answer to this question is “of course.” Celebrities are humans the same as everyone else, and, being visible to many people, they’d be sure to catch their True Emotion Mirror’s eye. Therefore it is not only possible but also very likely that somewhere out there, a celebrity has a counterpart who cannot get […]

How do you help someone break their bond to their Twin Flame/True Emotion Mirror?

If you are someone whose loved one is entangled in a hot and confusing-looking relationship with what they call a Twin Flame or True Emotion Mirror, you may feel like you have to interfere with it or “rescue” your loved one from that person.  You may also feel like this person is threatening your relationship […]

Is communication going to solve all your relationship problems? No. Sometimes it makes matters worse.

One would assume that explaining what you need from people is simple enough to do. However, the truth is that some people see the world from such opposite perspectives that explaining a simple thing may take you a lifetime, and it’s simply not worth the effort. Personally, I spent 25 of my adult years trying […]

How do you break a bond to a “twin flame”?

This question is a little bit misformatted. If this person truly was your Twin Flame, you wouldn’t want to break the bond with them, particularly if you already know them well. You just wouldn’t. They ALSO would not want to break the bond with you. Therefore, if one of you wants to break up, YOU […]

New Relationship Falsehoods Normal Person* and Savants* Style

When forming a new romantic or sexual relationship, both the Normal Person* and the Savants* may not be quite upfront about what they want in the end. The Savants* will be coy about things, they’ll add information as time goes on, but whatever they lay out there is intended to be there. If […]

Dipping into the Twin Flame phenomenon: aligning with your TrEmoRs.

I have read stories where female Twin Flames claim that they’ve started growing beards as their spirit gets more and more aligned with their Twin Flame. While I bloody well hope that’s not what’ll happen here, I have noticed something similar. I can, all of the sudden, follow the vocal lines of a TrEmor whose […]

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