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“Twin Flame”?

If you happen to identify “as a Twin Flame,” boy, do I have some stuff for you. I have rewritten the Twin Flame concept ground up with a little more “we’re still human” attitudes and less of “we’re about to float off the planet and become one” -narrative. I do not believe that Twin Flames […]

Soulmate Detox for the Savants*

Everything wrong in your life is because of ill-advised soul bonds. This is because your friends and family don’t understand what you want and won’t even believe you’re telling them the truth when you tell them what you want is what you want. They may believe that you’re simply joking around because you don’t want […]

Not “true love”: Pity, compassion, and understanding each other’s loneliness

Everybody defines “true love” differently, but what is definitely not the definition of “true love” for those who seek it is pity, compassion, and understanding of each other’s loneliness. However, this combination of feelings is what most “normal” love relationships are based on. It is simply love for the virtue of being equally pathetic. To […]

The one in love won’t feel the lack of love in a relationship and the one not in love won’t feel “loved”.

Let’s bust a major myth here. I’ve made a few attempts at this before, but one more time. When one partner is in love with the other, but the other one is not, usually we feel the one who is loved is the lucky one. The truth is the opposite. To love is to feel […]

Relationship blog for PICKY & CHOOSY people

To my target audience, these are things romance is MADE OF, but to the people this blog is NOT written for, these are the things that GET IN THE WAY of a romance: Looks. My people want the 9’s or 10’s, or 8’s with a great sense of style. (Your aesthetics may not be the […]

What is the difference between a true friend (precious soulmate) and a true lover (true emotion mirror)

The difference between a true friend (a Precious Soulmate) and a true lover (True EMotion Mirror) is quite simple, in common terms: With one, you have no real sexual connection to speak of, and if it exists, you both mutually agree it’s better off the menu. With the other, you have mind-blowing sexual chemistry on […]

Biggest danger to True Emotion Mirror relationship are concerned parents

It is said, that True Emotion Mirrors will normally reunite only in their 50’s and 60’s. There’s a reason for this; your parents. Once they die, and will no longer consider it their personal duty to make sure you’re not properly fucked (which is exactly what this is about) they will keep your True Emotion […]

How does a person become addicted to a relationship that is breaking?

This post describes ONE situation, I feel. It maybe a romantic relationship or a friendship, a job, even, but the situation, in this case, is when a person of low social status suddenly gains an elevation by being accepted into “circles”, gaining them a sudden elevation in social status. The person in question is the […]

Why people looking for true love are NEAR IMPOSSIBLE to coax into making a commitment?

There is an interesting interaction between people who believe in true love (or True Emotion Mirror love) and those who believe in… Marriage. The people who think marriage = true love won’t understand why people looking for true love are nearly impossible to coax into making a commitment to a serious relationship. What they don’t […]

Others’ influence in your True Emotion Mirror relationship

It would be NICE if we could all trust that we will return to our True Emotion Mirrors when the time is right and the Universe aligns on its own. Although effectively this is how it goes, the Universe doesn’t align on its own in any other sense that we are all part of it […]

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