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1101 Angel Number Twin Flame (Alternative interpretation)

If you keep seeing the number 1101 or 1011, you should pay attention to what the Universe is trying to cue you into. While this number 1101 has a different meaning in Angel Numbers, I feel there’s another, much more specific meaning for this number and its variants when it comes directly from the collective […]

Acceptance of minority groups and the right to an intimate relationship

Again, I’m going to try and move the cursor from “too much” closer to “what’s fair”, in what is “acceptance” and what is asking a bit too much. There is a level of confusion in what is “acceptance”, what is “discrimination”, and what are basic human rights… And I’m going to start with one simple […]

A pathological need for human connection: bad boys and bad girls

Please note that I am a certified life coach, which means basically nothing. I am not a psychologist nor a psychiatrist, or in any way officially qualified to offer help in diagnosing a mental health issue. Still, there seems not to be a way to classify this specific thing in traditional psychology, that I’ve seen […]

Bad reasons to get into a relationship and why some people feel good about them

Now, I am not entirely sure everyone feels the same way about every point I’m going to make in this post, because people are weird and they’re different. However, I’m going to be able to give you some reasons why people knowingly fight against what you call true love and they think it’s sensible. Definitions […]

Say goodbye to loyalty – say hello to true love and friends

I’ll declare a ban on loyalty. It is the enemy of true love and friendship, as it so easily ties you to the wrong people, systematically abusive people included. There’s a trick of course. Eventually, you’ll find people who are more important to you than anyone else, and you’ll spend your days making sure that […]

You Choose What Matters TO YOU in a Relationship

If you are beautiful/handsome, cool, stylish, talented, smart, built for success, philosophical, moral, fun, and entertaining person, if you are somebody who thrives on being a good person who takes others into account, virtually EVERYONE wants to be your partner or your friend. Whether you are male or female, rich or poor (because your inherent […]

Former Relationship Virtues You Should Retire or Redefine

Loyalty? While loyalty is a good thing in some sense, in another, it is a precondition to continued abuse. Loyalty SHOULD mean the attempt to always stand by your lover or a friend who is worthy of that loyalty, to treat them with respect and love, but it SHOULD NOT mean that you forgive abuse […]

2. The Most Important Relationship Types to Recognize

There are 3 main types of relationships that I encourage everyone to become familiar with. Two of them are perfect depending on your own type, and one is the trap relationship You Do Not Want To Get Caught In. It is not abusive, per se, but it will keep both of you unhappy and unfulfilled […]

Main Trap Relationship

This post is one of the most important posts for the Savants* thinker type to truly understand. This is the way we get trapped into relationships we don’t want, not really knowing how it happened. It is INSANELY difficult to explain to the Normal Person* why or how or what we mean by wanting […]

Stop “helping” your friends to get laid, into a relationship, married etc.

The single most destructive thing you can do to a person is to try and help them get laid, into a relationship, married, or to save their marriage. The thing is this: A relationship is between two people, not three, four, five, UNLESS it is a polygamous thing in which case, again, get out of […]

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