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Bad reactions to relationship fears

Here are some common and less common relationship fears that people tackle in not so healthy ways. To put your mind at ease, or terror, depending on the perspective, we all have some fears. No matter who we are, we all fear something about relationships. The question is… What and what we do to cope […]

Strong feelings = True Emotion Mirror / Precious Soulmate?

There is a reason to question that are ALL strong feelings toward a person a sign of a True Emotion Mirror or a Precious Soulmate. Sometimes, we hate the person we love more than anyone, and we kinda know that’s a True Emotion Mirror or a Precious Soulmate. Is it always that way? The way […]

People who are “not looking for a relationship” are still looking

Let me make this perfectly clear to you. People who are “not looking for a relationship” are looking for a relationship, and they don’t even bother making it clear to you because it’s fucking obvious. HOWEVER, what isn’t so obvious, probably, and why they keep repeating that they are not looking for a relationship, is […]

Relationship(type) priorities (parent-child, siblings, friends, lovers?)

People prioritize their relationships differently. Whether they have that relationship or not, they’ll always feel that they lack a certain type of a relationship when it’s missing, or romanticize and prioritize the one they’ve got above all other types. It is important for great relationships, that the people in it prioritize the same relationship type. […]

Rules for finding true love and peaceful life despite the Normal Person* Physioamorist’s

the Savants* make friends through peace, spiritual connection, friendliness, and friendship, showing love, giving love. They hold (the) respect of others (freedom) as their primary value. The Normal Person* believe in dominance and submission, bosses, fighting, disrespect, and the leadership of the strongest individual in any given group. Here, we have a pair of […]

Chemical Love vs. True Love

Maybe you have wondered why some people believe love is but a chemical reaction to another person? That is partly true, but it is possible for people to use love-fetishes to make that chemical secrete into the brain without actually being in love. You are, perhaps, aware of how sexual fetishes work. You may have […]

L. The Very Basic Relationship Skills

If you do not know the following basic relationship skills, you are not going to excel in relationships. Not even mediocre ones, if excelling in mediocrity would be possible. Without these skills, you are bound to simply make yours or other’s life a living hell and go from one failed relationship to the other. On […]

Have you done “all in your power” to salvage a relationship? (And if not, should you?)

Do you know that nagging feeling that you’re giving up on someone too easily? Too early? That there’s still something you could have done to rescue that relationship? You know what? That is not the right question to ask yourself, really. The real question is: Have you done everything you are willing to do in […]

J. The recipe of true love

We are all looking for true love – I can promise you that. Some people believe it is only possible between a mother and a child, but obviously, that is not even remotely true. To some people, love is giving, to some it’s taking, to some, a mere method of survival. However, we are all […]

People guessing what “a Twin Flame” is

The concept of a Twin Flame is an obscure one for many. Here are some translations for the term that didn’t quite hit the mark. 😀 Although some of these translations are accurate in terms of being A PART OF IT, some people thought they were enough of a definition by themselves. “An idol”; someone […]

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