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How to ensure the True Emotion Mirror relationship doesn’t slip into blatant abuse?

In this post, I wrote about how an unwanted relationship that functions under the rule of “unbreakable bond” and to prove an unbreakable bond turns into sadistic abuse leading to serious mental illness. In this post, I’ll attempt to answer the problem, that a lot of the True Emotion Mirror, TrEmor, relationship fun is based […]

Must Read: Relationship dynamics when one person is looking for “true love”

I am going to go on at length here, as this is going to explain so much of what you are experiencing – whatever it is that you are going through – that I cannot skip too many parts here. This explains our ’emotional reality’, and, even as this is going to be a large […]

Relationship EXPECTATIONS and ideals

The way we all view relationships and enter into relationships thinking everyone agrees on the rules and “realities” of them differs. These following offer some kind of a baseline to what different expectations and idealsĀ and expectations people hold. One person can go between several of these modes during their lifetime, and it depends on where […]

The Law of The Truest Wish; Relationship Clean Up for Business

When I first started reading the principles of The Law of The Truest Wish, one thing that really clanked in my ear BAD was the idea that you will have to drop your friends and family members who are holding you back and keeping you in negative thinking. My first instinct was: “it cannot be […]

Denial, humility, true love, dreams, and ego

It is beyond frustrating to try and reject someone who doesn’t seem to be getting the message. No matter how much you try to insult them or hurt their feelings to drive them away from you, they find a way to interpret what you say or do as a sign of undying, ultimate, height of […]

Why looks matter in a relationship, and where they don’t

Written for: Both good looking people (encouragement) and the unattractive people (reality check). Many people don’t agree on how much looks matter in a relationship. Those to whom they matter are constantly feeling guilty and evasive about how much looks matter to them, so it seems that the “looks don’t matter” crowd is winning. But […]

Relationship guide for those who are not really interested in sex

I have noticed that two groups are constantly at odds with each other when it comes to relationships. The sexual and the asexual. (Asexual meaning a person with little or no sexual interest towards other people.) Relationships, to an asexual, can be annoying, as people associate all romantic relationship types (mono or poly) with sex. […]

What does it mean when someone defines themselves through a relationship?

I had a fight with a friend once years ago. I remember her retorting to me: “I’ve never met ANYONE who defines themselves through a relationship as much as you do!” That comment struck me as a bizarre one, I didn’t think it was true, but it has been nagging at me ever since. What […]

The Personality Mirror Soulmate Typology is not there to tell you how lousy your love life is compared to other peoples’

This is an important thing to know about the Personality Mirror Soulmate Typology. It is not there to make you feel like a loser. That is not its purpose, OK? The purpose of the typology is to help you trust your intuition when you have met your True Emotion Mirror. It’s there to give you […]

About the Savants* and the Normal Person* relationship ideals

The main difference between the Savants* and the Normal Person* are what they value in a relationship. In essence, the Normal Person* thinking ideal is: “I will never let you go no matter what!” (Greatest love is to never give up on a person no matter how much they fight back.) In contrast, the […]

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