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Why do we need to define relationship types and soulmate types?

People are different. People think differently. We, people in general, think we are much more like each other than what we actually are. When we talk about love and relationships, we unintentionally misguide people when we attempt to guide them. We can also unwittingly crush another person’s hopes for a perfect relationship when we are […]

Relationship priorities, how our priorities change the way we connect

Although helpful on it’s own, this post relates to the profile fields under ‘priorities’. The profiling functions can be found under the navigation label ‘you’, for registered users. Trust me, everyone here has a valid point, but when these opinions collide, a relationship is going to become impossible to keep healthy. Some clashes are inevitable, […]

The Normal Person* Precious Soulmate*

The Normal Person* friendships and all platonic relationships are all about coaching each other to be better people. Make a due note that the Savants* do not feel loved in relationships based on this idea, quite the opposite they feel suffocated and unloved, and their variation of these relationships are the liberator of the […]

Which Poly-Mono Relationship Type?

In your heart of hearts, which relationship type sounds the most exciting, fun, and sexy to you? Which type sounds like, “Of course, everyone in my position would do that IF they felt it was OK!” One man is chased by a bunch of wonderful women he adores, while the women have a playful competition […]

Which Relationship Type?

In your heart of hearts, which relationship type sounds the most exciting, fun, and sexy to you? Which type sounds like “of course everyone in my position would do that IF they felt it was OK!” One man is chased by a bunch of wonderful women he adores, while the women have a playful competition […]

Your true love is the same kind of a pervert as you are

Sex, as far as I am concerned, is the KEY element in your romantic relationship. If you want it and your partner doesn’t you’re friends, not lovers nor partners. If you don’t want it and your partner does, you’re friends, not lovers nor partners. The one who wants more from a relationship than what they […]

What you need to know about the Personality Mirror Soulmate Typology

First, the primary key to understanding any of my theories is to pin a label on yourself. You’ll do this by answering this one question: Which comes first, commitment or falling in love? Full commitment comes before falling truly in love. (the Normal Person* answer) Falling in love truly comes before full commitment. (the Old […]

The Importance of a Consent to Remain in a Relationship

The Two Types: Commitment Driven approach: “We’ll make a commitment first, THEN we’ll fall in love.” Instinct-Driven approach: “We’ll fall in love first, then we see how deeply we are in love, and after that, we agree we want to stay together forever.” The second type is also difficult, because they can fall in love […]

Why We Follow Bad Relationship Advice

Make no mistake of this: well-intentioned advice may be the worst advice you’ve ever received, and most advice that we ever receive is well-intentioned… However, most people tell you what THEY would want to have been told, NOT what they feel YOU need to know. This next bit gets a little complicated, read it as […]

The meaning of self-confidence in a True Emotion Mirror relationship

Self-confidence is the key to ALL of our relationships, each and every one of them. The reason is somewhat simpler than what it sounds… When we are insecure about ourselves and how we’ll be received, or even whether people would love us TOO MUCH if they knew what we are like, we don’t let our […]

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