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What do women want out of a sexual relationship?

There is always a debate on what do women want out of relationships and how to women want to be treated, and the reason why the answer is so unclear is that there is no such thing  as “women” as a collective that all of them would fall into. The same is true for men, […]

Relationship Types

This page introduces the MAIN romantic relationship dynamics that you might identify in your life. The Two Opposite Ideals To begin with, I would like to introduce the two ideal relationship types that are simply a question of preference which one is your ideal and which one you should aim for based on that ideal. […]

Talking to celebrities in spirit – The Connection

I have had the opportunity to talk to a huge number of amazing people on the spirit level. It is not immediately obvious that what you do is actually real, or what you are being told is real… But there has been some amazing hits that were, to me, mind-blowing, considering that only 5 or […]

Breaking the breakup – healing major relationship problems

There are two types of thinkers. The Savants* and the Normal Person*. The Savants* are always ready to talk about their emotions, the Normal Person* need a little warm up by talking nonsense for a while. This doesn’t sound like a major issue, but it does relate to every communication problem we ever […]

When do I, a life coach, throw a relationship into the bin

Being good at relationships doesn’t mean that you will hang onto every relationship you’ve ever had (read: “never give up on anyone”), allowing them to drag you down, but it means you can manage any situation with relative ease without needlessly hurting too many people as you go along; including leaving people. Relationships are about […]

So you tried to behave like relationship advice describes, still, no love?

There is TONS AND TONS of relationship advice out there. From dating tips to cheesy pickup lines, and still, we find ourselves struggling with relationships. This is one of the most widespread misunderstandings about how relationships work: People think that by changing your external behavior, you can change your relationships, when, in reality, this doesn’t work. […]

True Karmic Soulmate

The True Karmic Soulmate seems to have one purpose only; to irritate  you, to annoy you, to make you feel like crap, and all you want to do is to return the favor. This should not be confused with the True Emotion Mirror reaction of wanting to attack them in order to break the ice, so […]

How to relax around your true love

So… I’ve talked a lot about how True Emotion Mirrors have to face their own insecurities when faced with each other, and how you need to know yourself and love yourself in order to be ready for a relationship, and then, somehow, I again answered my own problem: A spirit follower of mine, as opposed […]

Poly-relationships: True Love or Just Simple Boredom?

Poly-relationships, whichever way you like them, polyandrous, polygynous, group marriage, committed, non-committed, equal, or unequal are all a way to make a lackluster relationship far more interesting in the long run. That is a fact, but not all poly-relationships are about the lack of true love but the opposite; the authentic state of an authentic group of […]

Soulmate connection: Is this unrequited love or is there hope?

There are a couple of questions to help you decide whether you are holding onto someone who is not your true love or whether you still have hope to have them in your life. Unrequited love can be painful, but is it hopeless? Also, true love doesn’t have to be painful, because emotional pain is […]

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