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Why does the Personality Mirror Soulmate Typology exist?

In today’s world, people (the Savants* Personalities in particular) are constantly being reminded that true love doesn’t exist, that relationships are mundane, and that it is foolish, childish, and gullible to think that there would be such a thing as perfect love. I whole heartedly disagree and want to prove people who say that […]

Love and cynicism and how to protect yourself from killing true love

Imagine you’re a homeless guy. A man in a pristine suit walks up to you and hands over a bag full of money. “Million dollars.” He says. What do you do? Take the cash, thinking hey, groovy, nothing sus about this, or will you ask one question for every dollar he handed out to you […]

Soulmates: True Emotion Mirror compared to the Lovers’ Choice Soulmate*

These are THE BEST TWO soulmate types there is, and it is completely a question of your personality which one you prefer and would call for the ultimate love connection, such as a True Emotion Mirror. The bad news for some is that people who would pick the Lovers’ Choice Soulmate* type are in A […]

Finding your soulmate through increasing your self-awareness

Self-awareness means that you are aware of your own motivations, feelings, emotions, thoughts, likes, dislikes, dreams, goals, and anything else that is related to your own way of being. A person who is not very self-aware will pay little attention to what they are internally thinking and focus mostly on the external; other people, news, […]

Physical and emotional abuse in a relationship; giving and receiving

I am going to warn you that this post will probably anger some people but please stick with me. This might save a lot of people from both physical and emotional abuse in all of their relationships. Let me first introduce to you two completely opposite ways of thinking: Giver: “You love me because I […]

Polygyny and Polyandry relationship dynamics

Polyandry is the practice of forming a marriage, or, in the current society, a marriage-like relationship between one woman and several men. Polygyny is the opposite, often erroneously called polygamy, which is a generic term for a marriage between multiple people and bears no assumption to the gender ratios. There are more ways to form […]

How did I find my soulmate through spiritual practice and then, another one

Finding love is said to be difficult. It is not. What is difficult is trusting you found it when it hits you… When everyone else is warning you from trusting it because you might be fooling yourself. Sometimes we are. Sometimes we are not. Know the difference.

The two thinking types that cause relationship problems

NOTE 2022: This post is one of the first drafts of the Normal Person* (Sameness Thinker) / the Savants* (Difference Thinker) differentiation, and is public just to show where I started from. While there are no huge errors in the post, the emphasis has changed a little from “sameness/difference” to “protection of others/protection of […]

A True Emotion Mirror relationship dragged into the public too soon will suffer

We live in a culture where we are all expected to be sexually confident adults at 16 with no hesitation to trust ourselves and to move a relationship to the next level and make a commitment and whatnot. At the same time, we are being babied by our parents for much longer than before. A […]

Temporary: Precious Soulmate*

Cousin to the Libertine* Spirit Mirror (the difference is minor and not truly important in many cases), the Precious Soulmate* comes to your life when you are in need of, well, healing. A lot less boisterous connection, the Healing pair will nurse each other back to health, often romantically speaking. After losing their faith in […]

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