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Why finding true love is so confusing

True love would be easy to identify if you knew nothing of it, but we all know something. We ALL know too much. We all have heard of it, and that is the biggest problem of all. Some of us don’t believe in it, some keep searching with gusto never finding it, some decide not to think of it because even daring to hope to find it is too much to take… But if we didn’t even know what we were looking for, it would be the easiest thing in the world to identify.

The problematics of creating the Personality Mirror Soulmate Typology

Join me for the ins and outs of creating the Personality Mirror Soulmate Typology, and how different types blend into each other in the most annoying of ways making the typology a bit more fluid than what anyone would like!

Soulmate advice for men

You could always focus on attracting a woman – just any woman. That’s what most advice will get you, a woman. There is only one way to attract the kind of woman you dream about; by being just as stupid as you are, because who else would want you? 😉

Working on your relationship(s) without trampling on the other person’s authentic self

Authentic self is a sum of qualities that you wish you could call your own qualities. WISH. Very few of us has made a definite decision on who they want to be yet, so partner’s needs will affect our wishes and what we want to be. A good partner will not hide their wishes, but also they will not jam their wishes down their lover’s throat in a bid to turn them into something they’d love more than the loser they’re stuck with. Dangerous area, sometimes – trampling is so common it’s done at a marriage counsellors office with professional support!

How relying on soul-conversation (telepathy) to fix a relationship can go wrong

Telepathic conversations can be very helpful when both parties are aware of how telepathy works, even if the other is only present in the soul level. However, when we still struggle with self-esteem issues, we can hear things so terribly wrong – because telepathy works with emotions, concepts and ideas, not through exact words. When I think “purple” you may hear “pink”. It seems irrelevant but may have a major effect on how we understand each other.

What can I learn about my love relationships by studying the Personality Mirror Soulmate Typology?

True love is the stuff your mother warned you about: To never trust your lust, to avoid people you feel drawn to and be mistrustful of anything and anyone that seems like something you wanted and could have.

Things to take into account in your True Emotion Mirror relationship

This post explains different aspects that influence our relationships with our True Emotion Mirrors . The post explains how different areas of this website are related to soulmates and tell you how everything is linked.

Why the concept of divorce protects true love.

It didn’t take us long to decide to ban the entire idea of no divorce, but to put divorce on a pedestal; this lovely thing was the very thing that made our commitment valuable, sacred and pure; freedom. The thought of divorce was inconceivable, yet an absolute necessity to the sanctity of this marriage.

Development of soulmate sexuality through life times: incl. Demonic Phase

There are some fantastic discoveries I have to share with you – a fantastic Christmas! All of my discoveries relate to soulmate sexuality, but also, love and hate and the age of our souls. This should make interesting reading! When our souls are young, infant, in fact, many of our ways are infantile regardless of […]

Meeting any type of soulmate is always a good sign

As you know, one of the phases of True Emotion Mirror reunion is to let go of a Trail Companion*. This is assuming you want a True Emotion Mirror relationship, but a lot of people are much more comfortable with a Trail Companion*, even a Precious Soulmate* as a spouse, because it is not all-consuming […]

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