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How to make a relationship with the Normal Person* and a Savants* work?

In this context, the key difference between the way the Normal Person* and a Savants* thinks is sex and romance. It is NOT REALISTIC to expect that the Normal Person* can fulfil a Savants*’s sexual and romantic needs, even if they turn into a regular porn star meets sex coach and learn every […]

Looking for a connection in the confrontation.

The real reason for people picking a fight and seeking confrontation is probably that they’re looking for a connection with another person. However, when one such person is arguing with a connected person, their goal in that argument is different. One wants to solve their own lack of connection and make a friend by mutually […]

Would you be willing to live under your own relationship rules?

Hypocrisy is demanding one person to do something for you that you wouldn’t do for another person under the same circumstances. While it’s one thing to have a fetish for inequality in a relationship – I can fuck others, but you can’t, for example – it’s another to demand a person who doesn’t like it […]

The point of a physical life and relationship is the ability to hug your loved ones.

And to fucking hurt your enemies. Without physical life, both love and hate feel a little shallow.

When you hit a slump in a relationship, try to see them as if they were a stranger.

Sometimes, we get wrapped up in our problems and history. Maybe just one uncomfortable moment changed something. One way to clear the slate is to simply sift your own thinking so you look at them like they were a complete stranger again, and you meet for the first time. If it was good, it’ll suddenly […]

How to break an unwanted bond with a person you have a spirit connection to?

It is possible that an unwanted suitor, or a friend that should have never been a friend, a karmic soulmate, gains access to you in spirit. I have been in this situation for 13 years, and nothing I do or say will make them disappear. However, I just realized something. I don’t suffer from it […]

Is it right to feel sex would be a factor in a relationship based on true romantic love?

Yes. There is absolutely no reason why sex would go away from a relationship between two physically healthy people who are in love IF they are sexual in the first place. There are people who are asexual, and there’s nothing to change that, but they shouldn’t be in relationships with sexual people. Asexual people are […]

What is “fighting for a relationship”?

Fuck do I know? Sounds like some dumb the Normal Person* Thinking shit. Anyway. Let’s try. OMG. I’m just saying. I’m a Savants*. I struggle. So if Amber Heard is anything to go by, “fighting for a relationship” involves punching your husband in the face on a regular basis and then bitch and moan […]

What if you can’t tell if a relationship is a True Emotion Mirror relationship or a near miss?

True Emotion Mirrors and near True Emotion Mirrors LOVE to discuss their feelings together. TRUST THIS. If a person doesn’t want to talk about their emotions with you, they CAN’T POSSIBLY be your True Emotion Mirror. They maybe shy to start the conversation, you may be, too, but once it gets going, it should feel […]

If you don’t want a sexual relationship, stop chasing sexual people into them.

There are asexual people in this world. Some of them are men, albeit they are less vocal about it. Asexual people will rather focus on other ways to spend time together than sex. That’s all fine and dandy, but you CANNOT EXPECT a sexual person to stop being sexual simply because you don’t want sex. […]

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