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People have different relationship rules for their acquittances, friends, family, and lovers.

You should be well aware that your son won’t treat you the same as he treats his wife. What we ask the public to respect us for is one thing, friends and family is another. A person’s dating profile may often address their usual annoyances and put very little mind to “the correct behavior,” and […]

Runner & Chaser dynamic (in whatever relationship) is based on lack of appreciation… On the chaser’s part.

Imagine yourself in the shoes of a runner. What do you feel? Imagine any relationship that you don’t want but another person does. What are your reasons? The more love there is in that relationship, the better the example to illustrate the point. The more important that relationship is, the better example it makes. Dare […]

Fate, destiny, god’s plan… And your free will.

I call my spiritual belief system the Free Spirit Theory. Your will is limited by nothing but other people’s free will – and that of entities thinking of themselves as Gods. I’m still battling on whether gods are gods by some other trait difference than wanting to be, but I do think there is several […]

How to make a relationship with the Young Soul* and a Old Souls* work?

In this context, the key difference between the way the Young Soul* and a Old Souls* thinks is sex and romance. It is NOT REALISTIC to expect that the Young Soul* can fulfil a Old Souls*’s sexual and romantic needs, even if they turn into a regular porn star meets sex coach and learn every […]

Looking for a connection in the confrontation.

The real reason for people picking a fight and seeking confrontation is probably that they’re looking for a connection with another person. However, when one such person is arguing with a connected person, their goal in that argument is different. One wants to solve their own lack of connection and make a friend by mutually […]

Would you be willing to live under your own relationship rules?

Hypocrisy is demanding one person to do something for you that you wouldn’t do for another person under the same circumstances. While it’s one thing to have a fetish for inequality in a relationship – I can fuck others, but you can’t, for example – it’s another to demand a person who doesn’t like it […]

The point of a physical life and relationship is the ability to hug your loved ones.

And to fucking hurt your enemies. Without physical life, both love and hate feel a little shallow.

When you hit a slump in a relationship, try to see them as if they were a stranger.

Sometimes, we get wrapped up in our problems and history. Maybe just one uncomfortable moment changed something. One way to clear the slate is to simply sift your own thinking so you look at them like they were a complete stranger again, and you meet for the first time. If it was good, it’ll suddenly […]

How to break an unwanted bond with a person you have a spirit connection to?

It is possible that an unwanted suitor, or a friend that should have never been a friend, a karmic soulmate, gains access to you in spirit. I have been in this situation for 13 years, and nothing I do or say will make them disappear. However, I just realized something. I don’t suffer from it […]

Is it right to feel sex would be a factor in a relationship based on true romantic love?

Yes. There is absolutely no reason why sex would go away from a relationship between two physically healthy people who are in love IF they are sexual in the first place. There are people who are asexual, and there’s nothing to change that, but they shouldn’t be in relationships with sexual people. Asexual people are […]

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