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What is “fighting for a relationship”?

Fuck do I know? Sounds like some dumb the Young Soul* Thinking shit. Anyway. Let’s try. OMG. I’m just saying. I’m a Old Souls*. I struggle. So if Amber Heard is anything to go by, “fighting for a relationship” involves punching your husband in the face on a regular basis and then bitch and moan […]

What if you can’t tell if a relationship is a True Emotion Mirror relationship or a near miss?

True Emotion Mirrors and near True Emotion Mirrors LOVE to discuss their feelings together. TRUST THIS. If a person doesn’t want to talk about their emotions with you, they CAN’T POSSIBLY be your True Emotion Mirror. They maybe shy to start the conversation, you may be, too, but once it gets going, it should feel […]

If you don’t want a sexual relationship, stop chasing sexual people into them.

There are asexual people in this world. Some of them are men, albeit they are less vocal about it. Asexual people will rather focus on other ways to spend time together than sex. That’s all fine and dandy, but you CANNOT EXPECT a sexual person to stop being sexual simply because you don’t want sex. […]

What are reasonable expectations in a relationship? How much attention? Sex? Together-time?

The purpose of a relationship is to make you feel loved, wanted, cared for, happy, and fulfilled. If those things are not there, the relationship does not fulfill its purpose. What is reasonable is not the question. The question is: is what you are getting enough for you? Another question may be: Is what you […]

Breaking an unwanted soulmate bond – the Old Souls* leaving the Young Soul*

If you’re a Old Souls*, and the person you’re leaving or asking to leave is the Young Soul*, you’ll have to understand one fundamental difference in your thinking. The Young Soul* always aim to preserve every relationship and make them deeper, but very much on their own terms. The Old Souls* want to ensure our […]

Why playing “a role” in a relationship is bad?

There are people who like to pretend to be someone who is not in a relationship with other people. This is unlikely intended as a form of deception, but that’s how it’s often received. It might not make sense to a person what “just be yourself” means or why it’s bad that they’re not that […]

How to end a relationship with the Young Soul*: “I don’t need you anymore, you’re free to go.”

MANY the Old Souls* and Dog-Type relationships are based on the illusion that the other needs you. Quite possibly, you are both in it thinking the other one needs you for something—emotional support, financial stability, or to teach them to do something for them. However, the truth may be the opposite: You may be a […]

To get true love you have to learn how to be charming.

There are people who confuse unconditional love with true love. Unconditional love, however, is reserved for infant babies. Children over 6 years old are learning fast how to be charming – how to be nice and fun to be with. A baby is given unconditional love because that’s the key to their survival. Adults, however, […]

The True Emotion Mirror conflict – how all of your relationship values can turn on their head.

Meeting your True Emotion Mirror can make you feel things you never thought you would. Ownership, jealousy, anger on top of all that love that you never associated being linked to love. You know other people feel those things for people whom they should never even consider theirs, and you may feel shocked at your […]

Signs of a relationship that is simply NOT going to work.

Some of these seem like an obvious thing but trust me; they aren’t to all people. In ALL relationships, including sexual and romantic: Significantly different IQ levels; 30 points difference, experts say, makes communication practically impossible. (Your “problems” nor your “joys” will ever seem valid or real to the other.) Same said differently: You can’t […]

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