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Real or Fantasy – True Love at First Sight or just a foolish crush?

Here’s the interesting thing: I trust people to fall in love at first sight MORE than I trust them falling in love with someone nice they’ve gotten to know a bit. The reason is this: Your instinct can lead you to the right one; your soul recognizes its’ true lover (even if there’s a few […]

Polygynandry as the ideal default relationship form – even for teens.

I find it absolutely insane that we expect our teenagers to form loyalty to someone who will eventually turn out to be a temporary love interest down the line. Faithfulness is not a skill you learn in adolescence; it should be a natural reaction to your natural partner, not something that needs enforcing. If someone […]

Not every relationship is worth the effort.

There are a lot of people who think every relationship must be preserved at all costs. I’m not one of those people. To me, a relationship needs to give you something; it must be a positive in your life, not just something you must constantly push time and energy and “work” into to keep it […]

Telepathic relationship to real life relationship.

There is a possibility that the True Emotion Mirror relationship moves or begins in the “spirit realm” or psychic state. This is absolutely a real thing – as I’m writing this, I’m talking to my True Emotion Mirrors as I always do, every waking hour and a good chunk of the sleeping. Anyone who hasn’t […]

Is there a soul contract between yourself and your soulmate -spouse?

The way I see the Twin Flame concept’s idea of soulmates is that the contract isn’t as much a contract as it is a misunderstanding created over lifetimes and lifetimes of similar misunderstandings. The funny thing is that when the Young Soul* try to bond with the Old Souls*, the latter feel like broken up […]

Can a relationship between a good looking person and a modest looking person last and be real?

Yes, but it’s unlikely. The relationship is based on false ambition and false modesty, most likely, and as such, both motivations are somewhat toxic. It may also be over-confidence and lack of self-confidence. I wouldn’t trust it, even though the relationship may continue for a long time. There’s a type of a person who likes […]

How to break the telepathic connection to unwanted people?

Please trust me that they are with you for a reason, but that reason isn’t necessarily to make up with them and reestablish a relationship with them. They may be there to teach you how they think so you can avoid karmic binding like this in the future. They may not be teaching this to […]

The 3 sides to experiencing true love.

There are 3 factors that go into true love; to be loved, to be lovable, and to love. If you’ve only ever been around lovable people, you have no idea what it feels like NOT to LOVE. You may even think that your ability to love the people around you is to YOUR credit, and […]

Is the True Emotion Mirror relationship ‘durable’ and ‘ever lasting’?

From the Old Souls* perspective, yes, the Young Soul*perspective, no. Same thing, different answer. The reason is that the Young Soul* value predictability, security, safety, permanence, and reliability about a partner, all of those things that a True Emotion Mirror isn’t, particularly from the start. The beginning of a True Emotion Mirror relationship is almost […]

Um… It appears to me that my True Emotion Mirror (Twin Flame) is very much dead…?

Umm… If someone who doesn’t have a True Emotion Mirror sees this, they’d think we’re all batshit crazy, and many of us would agree. So he or she is talking to you in spirit (telepathically), but you know they’re no longer with us? It is impossible to kill life, you know? They have been reincarnated; […]

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