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Male and female energies – from the Twin Flame concept

There is this idea in the Twin Flame concept that the male and female energies must be in balance, even if the pair is gay. I don’t personally believe that to be true. In fact, I have observed that there’s a SAME male or female energy in them, male energy attracts male energy in women, […]

How interest and disinterest in developing a certain relationship is interpreted as narcissism.

People are social animals. We are hard-wired to want to make friends and we all have our preferences as to who we want to bond with. However, how we communicate a wish to bond or the wish to move on can create confusion between people who are feeling differently about the situation. There are people […]

To some people one-sided love is just fate or something

To my shock and horror, it is not obvious to some people that one-sided love is not a basis for a relationship. They seem to take one-sided love as fate dictating who gets to be loved and who has to be the servant in the relationship.

Relationship checklist: Red Flags and Greenlights

There are a few early warning signs to look out for in a new relationship. Some are there from the start, but there’s a danger that all these warnings will actually scare you off your one true love, too, so you will have to know how to compare the feelings involved. So you know, “the […]

Narcissist’s relationship to feelings of guilt, shame, and embarrasment

At the core of narcissistic personality disorder, is the complete inability to cope with feelings of guilt, shame, and embarrassment. They also feel shame for not being perfect or at least for not being the least flawed one they know. This means, that they never admit to being guilty of doing something, and will avoid […]

Start of everything: Your Relationship With Yourself

When you begin your road to happiness, the first and most important thing you must attend to is to develop a good relationship with yourself. If you skip this step, everything else will fail. There is no way around it; it must be done. The reason for this is that you are the only person […]

Do you want “true love” because you don’t believe regular love is quite enough for someone to love you?

Look, I’m not saying that true love doesn’t exist; it does. Still, take a little self-scan and answer that question: Do you want true love (partly) because you think it would take a small miracle for you to be loved?

True love ignites at first sight, false love by getting attention.

You won’t believe it until it happens – you’ll feel reassured if it already has: true love ignites at first sight, but false love ignites through attention received. Both need attention shown to go somewhere. If your goal is to “just find someone,” this post is not really relevant to you at all, but if […]

There are culturally formed karmic soulmate bonds you need to clear

For centuries, we’ve been living in monogamous heterosexual cultures the world over. This has created a situation where we are forced, culturally, to form inauthentic partnerships in all areas of life. Also, even if you were a heterosexual monogamist by your natural way of being, it is highly unlikely that your friends are lovers. It […]

What is the Purpose of the Telepathic State of the True Emotion Mirror Relationship?

If you are experiencing telepathy with your true love in spirit, which is surprisingly common, in a way that you are constantly connected to each other on the spirit level and aware of it, you’ve got stuff to figure out. You have a relationship issue you need to sort out, and your tools have been […]

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