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Relationship checklist: Red Flags and Greenlights

There are a few early warning signs to look out for in a new relationship. Some are there from the start, but there’s a danger that all these warnings will actually scare you off your one true love, too, so you will have to know how to compare the feelings involved. So you know, “the […]

Narcissist’s relationship to feelings of guilt, shame, and embarrasment

At the core of narcissistic personality disorder, is the complete inability to cope with feelings of guilt, shame, and embarrassment. They also feel shame for not being perfect or at least for not being the least flawed one they know. This means, that they never admit to being guilty of doing something, and will avoid […]

Start of everything: Your Relationship With Yourself

When you begin your road to happiness, the first and most important thing you must attend to is to develop a good relationship with yourself. If you skip this step, everything else will fail. There is no way around it; it must be done. The reason for this is that you are the only person […]

Do you want “true love” because you don’t believe regular love is quite enough for someone to love you?

Look, I’m not saying that true love doesn’t exist; it does. Still, take a little self-scan and answer that question: Do you want true love (partly) because you think it would take a small miracle for you to be loved?

True love ignites at first sight, false love by getting attention.

You won’t believe it until it happens – you’ll feel reassured if it already has: true love ignites at first sight, but false love ignites through attention received. Both need attention shown to go somewhere. If your goal is to “just find someone,” this post is not really relevant to you at all, but if […]

There are culturally formed karmic soulmate bonds you need to clear

For centuries, we’ve been living in monogamous heterosexual cultures the world over. This has created a situation where we are forced, culturally, to form inauthentic partnerships in all areas of life. Also, even if you were a heterosexual monogamist by your natural way of being, it is highly unlikely that your friends are lovers. It […]

What is the Purpose of the Telepathic State of the True Emotion Mirror Relationship?

If you are experiencing telepathy with your true love in spirit, which is surprisingly common, in a way that you are constantly connected to each other on the spirit level and aware of it, you’ve got stuff to figure out. You have a relationship issue you need to sort out, and your tools have been […]

Definition of “true love” and your personal bar

People interpret the expression of true love differently. First of all, people who don’t feel much loved at all think people who are looking for true love are looking for someone to love them. Unconditionally, I might add. In contrast, people who feel they are much loved and quite popular are looking for someone they, […]

If you want guarantees in a relationship, you need a Savage Spirit Mirror (Lovers’ Choice Soulmate*)

If you want a guarantee that a relationship will last, you cannot aim to lasso someone in kicking and screaming and expect that to form a lasting, stable relationship. Especially avoid people who want to find or keep the backdoor open for their True Emotion Mirror. There are both men and women, who very much […]

If you want a community, don’t make it to be about True Emotion Mirrors (or Twin Flames or soulmate healing.)

Spirituality is a highly personal thing. There is a reason why Buddhist monks are not allowed to talk to each other, and why a lot of spiritual communities rely on the wow of silence. You’re supposed to do your own thinking. You are supposed to connect to God, the Universe, and your True Emotion Mirrors […]

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