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Saturday, August 31st, 2024 at
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August 31, 2024 Tags: love, Romantic Chemistry, sexual attraction, Sexual Identity, Soups
Today, I discovered there’s another type of sexuality that I’ve been only semi-aware of. It’s called symbiosexuality. It means that you’re sexually attracted to a pre-existing couple and their ‘synergy.’ Me as a cynic, I sometimes find a little ‘mocky’ explanations to be quite effective; it seems like a type of love tourism; you are […]
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Thursday, April 25th, 2024 at
3:28 am in Australia - Last edit on
June 13, 2024 Tags: Soups
You will dump people. You will leave. They will leave you. That’s the nature of the game. The virtue of a polyamorous lifestyle is that it will pick and choose the people whom you share a natural bond with. COMPLETELY natural. You may realize this, but what about the people who don’t? Who are still […]
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Wednesday, February 7th, 2024 at
2:51 am in Australia - Last edit on
June 13, 2024 Tags: Soups
“But don’t you get tired when there’s all these options for you? No challenge. Boring?” OK. Imagine you have to share one option with people of your own gender. Feel better? “But I would never want my partner to be so incapable of choosing between me and someone else…” Mkay. What if they only chose […]
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Tuesday, January 10th, 2023 at
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November 24, 2024 Tags: boundaries, Soups, True Emotion Mirrors, Work-Life Balance
Yes. Let the boundary mix as much as feels natural. You basically don’t know which ones of the borderline people turn out to be perfect for you down the line. Just be real. Be possessive, greedy, whatever you truly feel. Allow your feelings to guide you, and talk about them in detail (if you’re a […]
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Saturday, November 13th, 2021 at
10:06 am in Australia - Last edit on
June 13, 2024 Tags: Non-Monogamy, Personality Mirror Soulmate Typology, Soulmates, Soups, True Emotion Mirrors, True Love
The signs that you are directly somebody’s direct True Emotion Mirror is one thing, but to be in the same TrEmoR Soup with someone is another. It is somewhat difficult to assess another person in terms of whether they are your True Emotion Mirror or not because we tend to have this tendency of photoshopping […]
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Wednesday, September 26th, 2018 at
4:20 pm in Australia - Last edit on
August 26, 2024 Tags: Non-Monogamy, Soups
You might not have been aware that you are, in fact, polyamorous by nature. You might have noticed something before. Regardless, like many others, you are so used to the monogamous expectation that you haven’t really thought it through. You may think it is normal that your relationships are a bit of a drag at […]
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Tuesday, September 11th, 2018 at
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August 26, 2024 Tags: Non-Monogamy, Personality Mirror Soulmate Typology, Soulmates, Soups, True Emotion Mirrors, True Love
Essentially what the argument over whether or not there can be multiple True Emotion Mirrors boils down to is this: Most people not only accept but insist on the fact that True Emotion Mirrors DO NOT meet in their last incarnation only, but that they meet several times across incarnations. They would also, thus, easily […]
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Thursday, October 26th, 2017 at
12:43 am in Australia - Last edit on
August 26, 2024 Tags: Attachment Styles, Emotional Boundaries, relationships, Soups, Trust Issues
Most people, when getting into polyamory, will begin by tallying up cocks and pussies in the right ratio. There is nothing wrong with that, if that is enough for you, but if you want a little extra still, you’ll have to go deeper than that. Taking the intuitive approach will save you some trouble and […]
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Sunday, July 23rd, 2017 at
1:52 pm in Australia - Last edit on
August 26, 2024 Tags: Non-Monogamy, Soulmate, Soups
In your heart of hearts, which relationship type sounds the most exciting, fun, and sexy to you? Which type sounds like, “Of course, everyone in my position would do that IF they felt it was OK!” One man is chased by a bunch of wonderful women he adores, while the women have a playful competition […]
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Wednesday, June 28th, 2017 at
4:12 am in Australia - Last edit on
August 26, 2024 Tags: Jealousy, Non-Monogamy, Soups
Polyamorists often feel proud of feeling no jealousy over their partners. However, jealousy can be a powerful aphrodisiac to people who are used to having everyone by the snap of their fingers, and who feel that they are having things a little too easy at times… and love the idea of having same-gender partners who are equal to them and well equipped to stealing attention from them at times…
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