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“After you, dear Alphonse”, – Why “No Jealousy” is a Bad Poly-policy.

Polyamorists often feel proud of feeling no jealousy over their partners. However, jealousy can be a powerful aphrodisiac to people who are used to having everyone by the snap of their fingers, and who feel that they are having things a little too easy at times… and love the idea of having same-gender partners who are equal to them and well equipped to stealing attention from them at times…

Sexuality and Poly-relationships and Platonic Gender Preferences

I haven’t even TOUCHED on stuff like cross-dressing, transgender stuff, pan-sexuality and all of that, I am still just talking everyday normal people who go about their days thinking “this is what sex is, and this is what I’m used to”, and I find enough possible type combinations to make anyone want to shoot themselves. […]

How do you choose your poly-poison?

I have been thinking about something: In my experience, people tend to always choose the opposite of what they actually want, thinking that they are doing someone a favor by being selfless or because they feel that the counter-intuitive approach must be the “right” one, because why would anyone do *that* unless it was the […]

Poly-relationships: True Love or Just Simple Boredom?

Poly-relationships, whichever way you like them, polyandrous, polygynous, group marriage, committed, non-committed, equal, or unequal are all a way to make a lackluster relationship far more interesting in the long run. That is a fact, but not all poly-relationships are about theĀ lack of true love but the opposite; the authentic state of anĀ authentic group of […]

Bisexuality and poly-relationships, are all poly’s bi?

Polysexuality is quite an interesting topic to explore, even if it was only from a theoretical point of view. Often, polygamyORpolygynandry1 is automatically linked to the form of polygyny; one man marrying several wives whose primary job is to rub the husband’s feet and nurse his babies, right? In reality, and in modern day reality, […]